How To Get Rid Of Abuchak?

How do I get rid of an ex at work?

• I say "ex" as that's the simplest way to describe it though just having an emotionally close relationship with him, that's it. I told him I'm not interested anymore after he dumped me. I transferred to two different shifts, and still he follows me to each shift to work his shift at the same time, now ending on the one I don't want to leave that works for me. It ended bad for me. Obviously not for him, & he really hurt me giving my all for him to dump me & leave me homeless. I do not want to see his face each time I come in to work, nor when I'm leaving. He passes through MY work crew entrance I can't leave & he won't use his own entrance for his work area, & I see him coming in the parking lot when I'm leaving. He is not bothered by awkwardness of our encounter, but hurts me badly to see him betray me. I saved his job once to then get used by him to get his job back, love taken away, friendship as well, I moved in for him beforehand to give him rent, & moved out according to legal conditions then to get his job back, was his doormat & ended up homeless & living out of a storage unit after that, & has been 11 years now that I continue to still feel the pain of him being everything that I needed that no one else could fulfill, & the pain of how he dumped me, & how all these years I have suffered without him, to attract one craphead after another like him, except now the man of my dreams I have but cannot get rid of this horrible memory following me in to & from my work shift every day. I have not talked to or looked at him ever since and he does the same, but now walks between my conversation & others when he can use his own work entrance. I want to leave this hellhole job bad, but will take years to build up a business in mean time. How do I get rid of him and end the pain once & for all? Make up a story & tell his wife he slept with me & get him running to me like before, knowing she will believe me? Trip him when he comes in, without others seeing me but making him look like an idiot? Don't want to lower myself to his level, but he is not getting it & how do you know when to speak to someone on terms they'll get, without drawing attention to him? Forgiving doesn't heal the pain, though I've tried. Get him to touch me & come up with a bruise within an hour & call the cops on the job & have him fired & assault charges pressed like the first girl that got him fired unjustly back then? The more drama or thought given toward him, makes more of his presence come, but ignoring him has obviously not worked all these years, & want to end the hell & hurt now once & for all. How?

• Answer:

  Sorry, didn't really read it all just skimmed through it. What he did was horrible but you allowed him to take advantage of you. There's really nothing you can about it, he isn't doing anything wrong, just showing up to work as he's supposed to. You're bitter( not saying it in an offensive way). If the sight of him is really that unbearable then you have to remove yourself from the situation.