I didn't graduate HS, I have bad credit, about to have a kid, no job and no car. My life sucks what can i do?
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I made some really wrong choices in my life. Before anyone tries to bag me on here please do understand my predicament before even judging me. Help me and give me some ideas. I'm not a bad person. I'm actually very smart..well I would like to think so. I didn't graduate HS,but I had some pretty cool marketing sales job in the past that paid me well. Then I got greedy bought a lot of nice cars that ruined my credit and now I'm stuck w/ no car. My license got suspended and I have to pay 600 dollars to reinstate which I don't even have. I'm about to have a kid in a few months and I don't even have a job to support my little one or a car to get around if my kid gets sick. No job will hire me due to my speeding ticket and credit. All the jobs I applied for that are hiring will literally take 3 bus to get to which will take nearly 2 hours just to get to work. All the jobs around my area did not hire me. The way I make money is to buy things on Craigslist, low ball them as much as I can then flip the item about 5-10% more than what I bought it for. It has its upside down,but it does provide some good side money,but not enough. I can't even get a car right now due to my credit. My car was repo just 4 months ago. And the bank is after me for the difference, I also have title loans that are after me as well as bounced checks that are over 4 grand that is not settled ( I did a stupid thing called writing my own checks to myself). My family is also giving me a hard time. My mom is somewhat supportive,but is seriouslly bipolar. At one moment shes trying to keep me in the house and the next moment shes trying to kick me out. I play the lottery everyday or every other day,but the most I've won in one year so far is only 70 bucks,but really I'm losing because I spent more on lottery and scatchers in a year than actually winning. I always find ways to make money. I tried pyramid marketing, I tried google ad sense, making free websites, niche marketing. Pay per click etc. etc. There are also a lot of scams out there that takes money to make money,but more like take your money then run away. I also tried credit repair places,but they required a really high upfront fee,but 80 percent of them are scams. I really don't know what to do and I am really tired. My life is pretty much screwed. I see all my other friend prospering and having a good life while I'm stuck. I always have to live a lie and always lie about everything on what I do so I'm not embarrassed. I don't want to give up that easily,but I just don't have anything left. Any suggestions?
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Answer:
Step 1: Get your GED Step 2: Find a job ANY job (doesn't matter how far away you absolutely have to work) Step 3: Get a car. Ok your credit sucks, well start saving your craigslist money and buy a junker out right. It's better than nothing. Step 4: Establish a budget and contact your creditors to see what payment arrangements they will make with you Step 5: Start buying for your baby and trying to save as much as possible Step 6: Go to college or at least a vocational school so that you can have a good paying career and not a dead end job Bottom line is you got yourself into this mess only you can get yourself out.
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Ok why don't you ge your GED. Claim bankruptcy and get your life together. I would even work at mcdonalds if I had to to support my son.
kristi
If your baby is due in a few months, it's too late for an abortion. Why that was even suggested is beyond me. First, stop wasting money on lottery tickets. Your chances of winning are about 1 in a billion. Secondly, stop trying to scam people for money. You're only losing money that way and risk criminal charges, depending on the scheme. Have you tried Walmart? Gas stations? Fast food? You don't have the luxury now of picking and choosing which job you want. At this point, you have to take what you can get. And there's nothing wrong with flipping burgers to support yourself and your child. If you can get a job that takes two hours to get to, you'll just have to get up extra early and get home a little late. It's not ideal, but again, you don't really have a choice.
Life'sABeach
if you have a baby its life will be so f*cked up i don't want to pay for your mistakes im sure your getting all kinds of free stuff from the government you people make me sick get off your lazy as* get off the computer get a abortion and get a job you lazy bumb!!
Chip
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