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How do you feel about dating someone with children?

• Okay I am 21 years old and I'm a college student. I have dated girls in the past who were teen moms and had children at young ages. I had bad experiences with them such as: 1. The girl can't just go out with you whenever you like because she will need a babysitter and even if she did go out she will have to return at a certain time. 2. Children can be c*ck blockers and get in the way of the relationship (crying, interrupting intimate moments, always wanting their parent attention, wanting to sleep with their parent at night, etc..) 3.You will always have to deal with the child mother or father, you will always have to look at the child and be reminded of their parent. 4. You may have to be a parent to the child and receive back lash such as "you are not my parent and I hate you" Don't get me wrong I love children and I love to have my own children someday. I can totally deal with some of the above statements if it were my children with my girl friend or wife. But I don't want a relationship with children from outside of our own. And I am currently dating someone who is graduating college soon and like to have children someday (doesn't have children). I really like her but I feel very obligated to be with her because I have strict standards now about not dating women with children and it will be rare to find another girl like her. How do you feel about dating someone with children? What was your experience like? I am open to criticism. Am I wrong for feeling this way about women with children?

• Answer:

  Don't date women with children. Ever. Let those women concentrate on raising their children and setting a good example for them. Those kids are already in a vulnerable position for the simple fact that their biological parents are no longer together. You are not wrong about feeling the way you do.... you're smart. You have a better head on your shoulders than a lot of those women with children, whom you've dated. You're not stuck with the girl you're dating now. There are plenty of women out there who are smart enough to wait to have children. Don't settle for anything less than what you want (within reason). :) I never dated a man with kids. Had my now husband already had children, I would not have married him. "It takes a real MAN "Only a real MAN is that amazing" What complete and utter BS!! LOL! Don't listen to what that person said. It's the typical things that are said by women who can't stand the fact that many good men won't date them because they have kids, so to make themselves feel better they say that the guy couldn't "handle it" and "wasn't man enough". I think those women should be WOMAN enough to keep their legs closed and stop worrying about dating, and start worrying about setting a good example for their kids. Not dating women with children doesn't mean you're not amazing. You may very well be completely AMAZING to your own biological children or even to those children that you and your future wife adopt TOGETHER. Don't date women with kids from someone else.