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Why did my ex delete all my wall posts and comments off his Facebook?

  • My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up from a short-term relationship for like 4+ months. We were friends with benefits for 2 months. I tried ending it a few times and then kept on changing my mind about it back and forth. The last time, I ended friends with benefits was last weekend to which he told me it was not a good idea to keep talking and hanging out if we are not having sex because we both want different things. He just wants to keep it casual while I want more than that. Then, right after ending friends with benefits, I hung out with another guy. I posted pictures of the other guy and I on on Facebook. I didn't think he will see them because I posted them while he was sleeping. But, maybe he did because then later the next day, he posts a status about how life is great and control alt delete ho. When, I asked other people about this, they say he must be referring to me because he must have gotten jealous and saw those picture of me and the other guy hanging out. So, I decided to call him up later that night and confront him about it asking if that ho status update was about me. He said it wasn't. We ended up talking chit-chatting a little bit more because I asked him if he wanted me to let him go and he said he didn't because it was a stimulating conversation. Then, his phone died on me. Then, the next afternoon, he texts me apologizing for the fact that his phone died and we continued chit-chatting back and forth about whatever. And, he even sent me a friend request on the dating site we met at and have active profiles on there, which, I mentioned when he texted later that day. And, he said, "Thanks. And, i promise I will ease drop your profile from time to time." And, I said, "You don't have to ease drop if you don't want to." So far, I am his only friend on there. Then, in the evening, after I come back from class, I see him logged online from his FB on his computer, which, he hardly is because he always uses it from his phone. I actually saw that he has deleted pretty much every posts I made to this wall and comments that showed we were a couple + even some of the little comments that weren't so "lovey-dovey" including the latest status update that was referring to ho. He didn't know how to delete posts before, but I guess he figured it out and went through few months worth of posting to delete all our memories as a couple on there. My friend says he did it because he got jealous from seeing the pics of me and the other guy is and lashing out by trying to forget about me. It seems kinda like he's doing that thing that Jim Carrey did in Spotless of Eternal Mind where he tries to erase the memories of his ex to get over her. 'Cuz it seems like way too much trouble for someone to go through few months worth of postings to delete them all, Then, the next day, he texts me like as if every thing is okay and for the first time, the convo wasn't relating to sex @ all like it usually is. He texted to say he was sorry for not responding back to my text the night before, but he got caught up in "business" because his dad got pissed off him @ him + got all shoken up over it. I told him I am here to listen for whatever + whenever + won't judge. I just didn't want him to keep it all inside because it might affect him more later than he thinks now. He told me that it meant a ton for me to say to that and same goes for me, that he will be there for me always. And, then he had to go back to work. But, the thing is, the last text I sent him the night before was when I saw him logged online on Facebook probably deleting our memories. And then, he texts me the next day acting if things are chummy. I am just like, "WTF!" because he pulled that **** yesterday and apologizing to me today for not replying to my text yesterday. He usually doesn't apologize for not replying since we broke up or say, "ttyl?" + know he doesn't have to. So, how do you interpret this? Does it seem like he may have genuine feelings for me beyond the sex? I definitely would a opinions from guys on this. But, ones from girls will do!

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    trying to erase everything . my ex did tht! he doesnt want no memories of you but they will remain there. forget him, show him what hes missing, i think hes sort of playing with you. ignore him for a while. let him come you you if you want him back, always let him contact you first. take a while to respond. please help me http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhUJ2ExskOoLNnGObr.Yd6jty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20120502232438AAGY6f0

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"genuine feelings for me beyond the sex?" Obviously not. Which I am sorry to say. He is using u as in booty call.

Joseph C

Some guys do that. It's really immature. I mean it seems like he's just trying to push and pull you. Don't let him. Even if he had genuine feelings for you, you don't want a guy like that. I may not know you personally, but you deserve better than that. No one deserves to be taken advantage of and played with like a cat plays with yarn. Get this dude out of your life honey, I've seen his type, and they're never fun/end well.

Jamie

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