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Why Do I Feel So Nervous and Uncomfortable Around Men?

Why do I feel like this if I'm around 2 or more men...?

  • I'm not a man hater or anything but I feel so aggravated and trapped and nervous when I'm around more than 1 man, if I'm with a group and there's 1 male, that's fine, maybe if there's 2, that's okay but when it gets past that number I suddenly feel annoyed and aggravated, I don't talk much, I get nervous, I feel trapped, it's like I just DO NOT LIKE male company, I literally feel SO agitated around a lot of men and I don't know why... I've not been raped or anything. For example, my brother will invite a bunch of his friends around, say if there is 4 of them and him, even though they are in his room playing video games and I'm in my room on the internet, I feel SO aggravated, I can't relax, I'm nervous, I'm worried and I make sure I keep complaining to my mom about it until she sends them home, I just don't like the fact that there's THAT many males in our house, 1 or 2 is okay, more than that I feel sooo nervous and anxious and I just feel so upset and depressed when there's a lot of men around, I've never been raped or anything, why do you think I dislike men's company so much? Most girls I've asked said they actually prefer men's company than women's which shocked me because I can't relate to them at all on that matter... I don't know what it is that makes me dislike men's company so much, I think it's cause I hear about bad men SO much that they scare me so I try and stay away... and another thing is, I don't trust men at all...

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    Clearly you have a history you aren't telling us. You might want to seek some sort of counselling. If your mom doesn't see your behavior as unhealthy, then she is as likely as screwed up as you are.

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it sounds like you have some personal internal issues that need to be worked out. you say you werent raped a couple of times but make no mention of molestation or if your father is still there or if he is abusive toward your mother... there are many things that could cause such a reaction... there you go problem identified, thats the easy part, the hard part is figuring out how you will deal with that and move on. best of luck to you, nobody deserves to be treated like especially children keep your head up

dear..don't take that in serious.....all mans r not same.....talk to your friends, be sure you have choose a good man.............

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