Feeling sick, but I don't know what it's from?

What should i do? pls guys help i am not well i think..i am new to this feeling and i dont know how to react?

• i am mostly not getting what is happening to me.. i have cmpleted my graduation and after lottts of try i am atlist haf way wat i wnated..this is happening to me since last 10 days..i am not feeling like going out.,i was having fever 10 days back but wen i went home frm this place i ws ok within two days..and more to that i am back to my hostel and i am not joing i dont know why.,what is this phobia i try talking to this but my boyfrnd and mother tred to undrstand and i did try i am here since thursday and i am not going and joing they my siners think i am sick and home..but i am ok i am in my room and i am afrid of what?? i dont know i liked wat i was doing i like this course more to it i knew it was hard ..and i did do good for 10 days..and now i am litrly going down why i dont know.,nobudy was very bad ..usual senior jounirs crisis..and nothing much..but this lazy strip i cant go out of my room and i cried wen i left home..i am not leaving away from home 1st time..,i am did my graduation outside only..then why is this happening??pls guys help..why is this happening...i am 25 yrs old and i cant go down 4 florrs and join my course back???i am independnt girl..and i tried for 2 yrs to do this.. what is wrong with me??? pls help i going on pth which ends in suicide????????

• Answer:

  First of all your not going down the path of suicide unless you decide to go that way. Am interested in the fact you were ill with fever at the start of this. I'm wondering about post viral fatigue to be honest. I guess maybe also a part of you is scared of failing? Perhaps your body needed this illness to be a fail safe at the end if you can't cope with the work you can say well I'm ill and can't cope. Maybe not, sometimes our subconscious does these things without us actually deliberately thinking it through. Does this feel like a depression to you or a panic disorder or maybe agoraphobia? Possibly you feel the way we all feel when we're recovering from a bad flu and feel tired and lacking in energy and interest in things? Maybe you're scared you missed too much when you were sick and as you say this is a hard course, picking up with 10 days work isn't going to be easy. Fear of failing can terrify anyone into total inactivity. If this seems to you like post viral fatigue see the doctor fast. If it feels more of an agoraphobia mental crisis see the doc as well so he can send you to mental health professionals. Sit and have a good long think about which of these possibilites it can be, one of them will hit home I think. Good luck