I've been having health problems and dont need boyfriend. how do i break up with him?
-
OK, so ive been having some heart and thyroid problems and im always at the doctor. I thought i could handle a boyfriend but i just cant right now. im a freshman in high school, were nothing serious and we just started dating last friday but our friends set us up and i will feel like a jerk if i break up with him. When im at school i always feel sick because of my health problems so i dont feel like being fake happy for someone. i dont think im going to be able to break up with him in person because i will feel bad, what should i do? Thanks in advance, Hannah
-
Answer:
The only way you won't seem like a jerk, is if you do it in person. Otherwise, thats just low. Just ask to speak to him privately and explain exactly that. You are dealing with a lot in your life and don't feel it's fair to him because of your situation. Tell him, he's been very nice, but this isnt a good time for you.
Hanna at Yahoo! Answers Visit the source
Other answers
First of all I wish you a speedy recovery, I suggest you do not do something you don't feel like doing that makes you sick too. I agree with all that said be honest, tell him what's going on and that you like to acknowledge him as a friend but since you are going through so much right now you are just not ready I am sure that after you tell him this you will become better friends and later.. well that remains to be seen but the #1 priority right now is you and how you feel. I truly wish you the very best
Just explain to him what is going on and maybe when you are feeling better you can start where you left off (if u like him that much). It's ok, Love! Your not going to be a jerk! Best of Luck to you! Hope you feel better! God Bless! xoxo Kelli Marie Coughlan
Tell him about your health problems and if he is a good bf he will support you and understand.
You should always be #1. Then again, the support from someone may be worth the effort. Make sure he understands what he's getting into, and if you're not comfortable with it, break up with him. It's not a big deal.
Well do what's best for YOU not him. Because you come before any boy.
Just simply tell him that you really can't handle a boyfriend right now what with your heart and thyroid problems and say that you still like him but it's just too exhausting to keep up with him and be a good girlfriend to him. That you need time to recupperate and a boyfriend isn't helping that. If he's smart than he'll forgive you because he understands. Just don't say some stupid cheesy line like "It's not you, it's me." Cause even though you truly believe that he might not and think your just trying to break up with him and not seem terrible. Tell him that when you get your life in check, and he isn't already in a relationship, that you guys could maybe get back together. Tell him that he shouldn't wait for you and he should go out and date because you don't know how long it will take to get it together and you don't want him to miss out because of you.
If all else fails, print this out and give it to him.
Did you get in a relationship because you thought you "need"ed him? You should have gotten in a relationship because you "want"ed to be with him. I'm sorry, I don't know what to tell you because you should have thought of this last Friday before agreeing to be his girlfriend. No matter which way you swing it, he's going to feel pretty unworthy, having a girl break up with him a week after they "dated". I'm not trying to convince you to stay with him, because don't string him along if you don't like him, but I'm just trying to make sense of the reason why you'd agree to go out with a guy, and then a week later say "I don't need a boyfriend." PS, sorry about your health problems, and I hope you stay safe & get better.
If you've only been together since Friday, it's fine. On the other hand, you don't really HAVE to break up, you know. Just enjoy it.
Related Q & A:
- How do I break out of an R command?Best solution by stackoverflow.com
- How can I break the habit of sleeping too much and too late?Best solution by answers.yahoo.com
- How can I break into marketing?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- How do I break up with my GF?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- How do I break up with my boyfriend?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
Just Added Q & A:
- How many active mobile subscribers are there in China?Best solution by Quora
- How to find the right vacation?Best solution by bookit.com
- How To Make Your Own Primer?Best solution by thekrazycouponlady.com
- How do you get the domain & range?Best solution by ChaCha
- How do you open pop up blockers?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
For every problem there is a solution! Proved by Solucija.
-
Got an issue and looking for advice?
-
Ask Solucija to search every corner of the Web for help.
-
Get workable solutions and helpful tips in a moment.
Just ask Solucija about an issue you face and immediately get a list of ready solutions, answers and tips from other Internet users. We always provide the most suitable and complete answer to your question at the top, along with a few good alternatives below.