How To Get The Guy You Like?

How to get his attention/ I really like this guy?

• So, I've liked guys in the past, but they always end up being jerks and nothing ever becomes of it. Well, I met this guy about six months ago because we have the same on-campus job. Ever since I met him he was always very sweet to me, but was never flirty. I mean is that he's the only guy I've ever known that treats me like a lady. he holds doors open for me, he shows up at my late night work shifts to walk me back to my dorm, and he even bought me flowers for my birthday that was two weeks ago. The signs are very obvious and I know that he likes me. Here's the problem: I like him too, super ultra like even. But I've been so hurt in the past that I'm afraid to let another guy in my life but I don't want to lose him. My girlfriends say that I should continue being friends and go out with him since he's a great guy. the other night, he even told me that he'd never do anything to hurt me. He told me that he liked me the first time that he met me, and I gained the courage to tell him that my feelings were the same, but I didn't realize I liked him until about 2 months ago. I guess my question is, how do I keep him interested? Because he would make a great boyfriend, we're just at the point where the next step should be taken, but we're holding back. When I met him he had just broken up with his girlfriend who I know he loved but he ended the relationship because she cheated on him. He was heart broken, but though being friends with him we both helped each other heal. What is holding us back? Every time after I talk to him or we hang out, I always get a great feeling. The other day I honestly thought, "I could marry this guy." I'm still young, I'm 20 and he's 21. He's very mature for his age and is the only guy who's cared about me and has been protective. I'm just swarming with all these feelings, and I feel that he's the guy of my dreams. Please hhelp!

• Answer:

  Spend time with him, let him know you enjoy his company. At this point, "DATING" or not, spending time with each other is of paramount importance. Nothing wrong with taking it slow romantically, get to know one another really well before you jump in. Luck