How can i get rid of my wife without regretness?
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my wife does stupid things to me. she backbite and slander my mother and my sister and every one that she like to and she knows that i hate this thing.she is so rude and ambitious... ever time that i want to change the situation and i ignore her bad manners she abuse getting more cheeky and sauco. i want to leave her but really im scary about loneliness... despite really i know that she can be the one that i love... i dont love her but im scary about leaving her... something that is intersting is that she never wanna leave me and more intersting thing is that ,she is scaring of her family(her neice ,cousins. aunt and uncle that all of them are bad together) thought about her...you know we are in traditional country, but even in my country such mens are strange. help what can i do( really i know she can't be my buddy) but im scary about my own loneliness and the memries even bad ones... she cant get better.... please answer
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Answer:
Let her know she has to change or you will leave. Why live there and not be happy. I'm single and happy. When she is ok with change you have to under she will be perfect and sometimes she will slip but just kindly remind her and hug and she will ok it. After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if wanted. If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love When you marry if you do decide to then make sure you don't play games and straight forward to your wife. Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead. You can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. Them can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one. Knights never argue knights make their women proud and want them. Make sure you have everything ready. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Pay that car cash, used or new. Pay the vacation cash and have your retirement ready, remember to diversified in many ways not just many stocks but many ways. NOW if you want to use some credit cards because of perks then make sure to place that cash aside in the bank account so when the statement comes cash is already waiting ;) On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you. Love and the Good Life will come P.S. Email me if you have another further statements [email protected] P.P.S. Daily words of encouragements TWITTER my account is = @glhww P.P.P.S. Majority of my answers are for the majority, there are many variables to consider always
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Other answers
first of all couples should try to resolve issues before heading for divorce. if you have tried everything you possibly could to save the marrage and she continues to abuse her then file for divorce. there is no easy way out, but if you try to do everything you can to save the marrage and it does not work out then you should not have regrets as you will know this. if her family is abusing you you need to report it and seek protection. you should not be living in an abusive house. you are an adult and need to make wise decisions.
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If you don't think she will change or if you can't stand it anymore, get a divorce. There is NOTHING lonlier than being in a bad marriage. Believe me.
Kathy
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