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• So basically my mother abuses me emotionally. She constantly puts me down im never good enough every little mistake i do she makes me feel like the worst person in the world. Everything she does for me like give me food and a roof she Thor's it in my face and makes me feel bad that she gives me that like i never asked to be born. She gives me hell everyday. She puts her hands on me. She is never happy. She loves a clean house so i try to clean it when i can but she never cares it never enough. Today she told me my dad must have been drunk when he conceived me. She calls me B*tch after every sentence and other horrible names. If i ever make a mistake its the end of the world. She throws it in my face forever. She doesn't let me have a life. I can never go out and have a fun time with my friends bcuz she expects me to be home at like 12 not later cuz she cant sleep if im not home so i can never have a good time and if i come home late she yells at me for days, ad calls me a hoe and different thigns. im 21 gonna be 22 in couple months. Shes emotionally abusive and i have no confidece in myself becuase of the constant put downs my whole life. I was always the worst person to her. And she expects me to be a loving daughter to her and always compares me to her friend's daughte rwho'sos every loving to her and doesnt clean or cook for her daughterer. SHe thinks that makes a good parent. If they give you things like a nice house and cook for you. But never in my life did i have a good memory spend with her without her making a fight and putting me down or yelling at me. I admit im not the easiest to get along with. I dont have the beset personality but everyone has bad qualities. But she never hugged me and said im here for u dont worry and made me feel like i was loved and wante. She believes giving me a rood and doing things i ever asked her to do for me is love but then she throws all that in ur face and abuses you. I feel unwanteda in my own house and she always makes me feel bad for eating their food cuz she says i bag on them cuz i do "nothing" in this house. Today she called me down to eat after calling me all these names and saying all the horrid things she does . SHe never even listens to wat i have to say she talks over me n i can never say anything or she will hit me. I tell her i dont want to eat becuase she makes me feel horrible cuz i feel like i bag on her for food and shes like whatta stupid retard u r just like ur father. She expects me to put my life and school work aside to clean all day. Shes a crazy clean freak. Everything i do to benefit me she throws in my face. If i go see my bf she throws that in my face. If i go out with a friend she throws that in my face. She never stops with her b*tchig and cruel names. im terrified so i do nothing just so i dont get abused. THe other night i was studying for an exam. And she wanted me to do laudnry but it was sunday and tuesday i had my exam. I told her im going to do the laudnry on tuesday. she said okay.. On suday she starts putting in the loads. And i had plans but they never matter. I can have a plan to go to a party with my bf or go to an event my bf payed for and she can tell me we gotta go somewhere or i gotta clean and i cant go. But anyway she starts loading the laundry n i have plans so i bring my plans to the house to i can do the laundry. My bf comes over and the whole time im unloading and loading the laundry. The clothes that are dryed i put them on the coach, bcuz im not going to fold clothes when my bf is over, plus i told her im not going to do the laundry today anyway. But that never matters my plans are whatever. So on monday i come home from college at about 730. My brother was home all day didnt fold a thing, and i get yelled at for not folding it i told them i cant fold it now i told u i will be busy these two days i dont know why u started to do the laundry on sunday. She got all crazy on me and making me feel like dirt bcuz i didnt do wat she wanted. I was then studying for my test. She comes down with her husband. He starts asking me 5 times why i didnt do the laundry. I said i need to study right now i have an exam tomorrow. He then rips out the paper from my hands. Then gives it back still yelling at me and then again rips it out and i starts crying and screaming and he smacks me. Then i had enough i go upstairs and call the police. Police come a little late. And today she starts talking bout how im such a horrible person for callin the police she will never forgive me for it and i should be in her knees beggin for forgiviness. When i am away from this house i feel free, i feel like i can do and accomplish anything because no one is putting me down like that constantly. I wanna save up money and move out but i onlly work part-time because of school. I really dont know what to do anymore, i cant keep living this way, sorry for the long essay, but any suggestions? I really want to keep my sani

• Answer:

  The number one thing to do is pray. No matter what God will help you. Your probably wondering why he gave you a mother like that. Because hes making you stronger as a person. I'm not saying because your Christian things arent going to get easier but the things tht will come will be tests to see how much faith you actually have. Another thing is to just work super hard. Keep a full time job to (of you can) and just keep working. God will provide a way for you. I'm praying for you.