Should I trust electronicsupplyltd?

Is time the ONLY way to build Trust?

• Getting married. I only known my fiance for a little less than a year. His mother privately messaged me over facebook expressing her concern telling me that I couldn't possibly love her son enough to marry him in a short amount of time and that we need more "time" to build "trust" Many people assume that it takes time to build trust. But in my personal opinion, time isn't the only thing to build trust. I think the "exchange" of trust is a faster more direct way to build trust between people. For example, If I met a new friend, and that friend told me an embarrassing secret of hers, and in return I told that friend an embarrassing secret of mine. Now we trust each other not to reveal the others secret. By giving trust, you receive trust. And when you receive trust, you could give trust in return. And that is exactly what describes the relationship between me and my fiance. Although explaining that to his mother, she felt I was "disrespecting" her but I cant help that, although I apologized. I trust my fiance not to harm me emotionally just like He trust me the same way not to hurt him. It simply works. What is your opinion?

• Answer:

  Youre gonna marry someone youve known for less than a year? Thats pretty stupid to be honest. Yes trust takes time to build. Big whoop if someone tells you secret. It doesnt make you best friends. What if the person is lying about that secret? Its not only trust thats the issue, its the fact that you dont know him as well as should. How can you marry someone you dont know? Obviously youre going to say you know him...but knowing someone for less than a year and thinking of marrying them is dangerous. It takes time to see the true person that they are. People often go into marriage thinking "oh hes the perfect husband"...a couple years down the track and they think "this is not the man i married"...thats because you dont know the real him. You only see what he chooses to show. To see if someone is marriage material, you gotta know them for a long time. To see if the actions they do support what they say. To see the flaws the person has. To see whether he has anger issues/violence issues. To know everything about them. That way, when youre married, there wont be surprises. The divorce rate is at 50-60%...I think its because people marry too young and too soon.