How can I win my ex back?

How can I win my ex back?

• My ex boyfriend is very stubborn but I can't help but still love him? I have been with him twice now I'm only 13. He came back and said he missed me last time I was so happy! So basically last time we broke up with was devistated, but he came back to me and this time I caught him with another girl and we had an argument. I'm a 32B in bra size, have golden brown hair and eyes but he said I wasnt like the other girls and all that.i miss him so bad! I just need to know how I can get him back without looking desperate or forcing him? Any help?

• Answer:

  No contact: This is the hardest thing to do especially if you are anxious to apologize and set things straight, but it is best to give your ex some space. No need to establish any sort of contact. This will really get under your ex’s skin and they will push you away. So this an ideal time not to call constantly and for you to think about the things that you did or did not do that caused your relationship to end. You might want to point fingers and blame the other person for the mistakes you made, but it is vital that you look deep and take responsibility for your wrongdoing. During this phrase you also should learn to accept the fact that at this point your relationship is over. Apologize: Before you go and apologize make sure that you are clear on why you are apologizing. Saying that you are sorry and hoping that it all comes out all right will do no good if you have no idea what you did that needed the apology in the first place. Your ex will see through your efforts. If you apologize without knowing the reasons you will look a jerk to put it nicely. So make a sincere effort to figure what you did as the above step suggests then this will not be difficult and your ex will be more willing to forgive you. Be honest with your feelings and keep your dignity intact. Do not sound like you are begging and pleading for your ex to take you back. Hope it helps!