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  • My boyfriend and I are in college and we've been together since high school. We've had a lot of problem regarding facebook in the past because there were a lot of things that we on his that I always confronted him with. Like there would be girls who he considered friends commenting him in ways that I wasn't okay with like there was someone who asked him to visit her alone at her university an hour away and there was another girl who asked him to teach her how to play video games and play football and stuff even when she had her boyfriend to ask. Then there were times where he took pictures with his arm around girls he considered friends that I have never met or known about. So many things occurred over a long period of time that caused me to be hurt or offended and it got to a point where we got into a huge fight about it and then he blocked me on facebook. Afterwards, we talked alot about things that I was not okay with like him being so open and friendly with other girls causing them to sound flirtacious with him and also with the whole being touchy with other girls and stuff. Then after a while he told me that he's been working on changing his behavior around other girls. But after 4 months he has not been willing to add me on facebook again. I've been really upset about this because I keep thinking that he is hiding stuff on there. He also removed all our pictures on fb and has his relationship status as blank. So basically his fb does not say anything about him having a girlfriend. He says that he's not doing anything I might be offended by on facebook and that he's only focusing on his own life on facebook. I've been extremely upset because I wanted everything to be open with us and he even said that he's changed his behavior on facebook so why would he want to keep it from me. He says that he's been really stressed out about me confronting him about facebook stuff in the past and thats why he doesn't want to add me because he's afraid that I would be offended by more things when I get to see it. How should I feel about this?

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    RUN! He is clearly a jerk and doesn't deserve to be with you. My ex who cheated on me and got me pregnant also did this. If this wasn't a clear sign of a cheater I don't know what is. Please don't let him do this to you. Find a better guy and you will feel better without him.

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He hasn't changed his behavior and he obviously has something to hide. Stop wasting your time on your cheating boyfriend and focus on your schooling. You don't need that mess on your mind right now. Take the situation for what it is. No excuses.

Everything you're feeling is a sign of what you should do. Your instincts are screaming at you. There's no way you can stop him from being on F***book. He's hiding things from you and you're wanting to get up all into his face (no pun intended). This doesn't sound like a relationship. He's looking for someone else. Move on. Only a suggestion, but don't try to move on through F***book. Getting rid of F***book is the best sign of having moved on.

you should tell him that it bothers you that he doesnt add you on facebook i mean i never heard that before thats just weird but if he still doesnt accept then you should maybe move on

he is not for you. if he does not want to add you to his account it means he is hiding something from you, possibly being involved with someone else/flirting on that account etc. he does not want you to see his actions and what he is doing with whom so you dont pick up on his tricks. i say move on and ditch the loser.

i wish i were there with you so i could scream this at the top of my lungs but since i cant caps will have to do....ITS FACE BOOK!!!!!!!!!!!!! i must have looked over the part in your post where you said he was hitting you, or that he constantly puts you down in front of your friends or that he is cheating on you, or he steals from your purse to support his drug habit or he is currently in jail for armed robbery but you still love him and youll wait for him to get out. No? none of this? let me say it again ITS FACE BOOK!!!!!!!! get over it. EDIT all of these girls are giving you the same advice, but thats because they are just as insecure as you are. you had a problem with him having friends that you had not met because you saw them on face book. obviously these were not girls he was screwing or he wouldnt have put them on there. he could always have created a different face book account using a diff email address but he didnt. when you freaked out you lost FB privileges.

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