My future husband and I were discussing some aspects of child raising and had a disagreement; who is right?
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He and I recently conceived a child while taking a bubble bath and now our parents are making us get married and live in his parents house. Overall, I don't mind at all. I like his mom and dad and he has a nice house plus we can't support ourselves yet because we are both still 18. I'm going to be 19 next March and he's actually younger then me because he turned 18 earlier this month. They are taking us to Las Vegas to get married in a wedding chapel there. We promised them that we would not have any relations again until AFTER the ceremony which will be during the last week in May. They haven't fimed up the day yet. Finals are over for both of us on May 17th. My future husband is a child prodigy because he graduated from high school when he was 17. I was 17 too but its because my mom got me in Kindergarten at a younger age. He is good in Math and Science and is majoring in Physics. I'm majoring in English. Anyway the arguement was over where the baby should go to school. My future husband and current father of the child believes in the Theory of Evolution and does not want our child attending a Christian School. I'm neutral about Evolution and Religion and really don't care one way or the other. I want the child in a private school where it (don't know its gender yet) will get a good education. So who is right?
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Answer:
I'm not really sure how this is a disagreement; if your future husband is adamant about the baby's education, and you are neutral, then why not agree with the husband if you "really don't care one way or another"? If you want the child attending a private school, and your future husband does not want the child at a Christian school, then why don't you send the kid to a private and non-religious school? You and your future husband will both be satisfied. I really can't say who is "right" in this circumstance; it's all about what you believe in. Neither of you are right, and neither of you are wrong. Good luck and congratulations on your future wedding and child!
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If he is adamant and you are neutral, then there isn't really much of a disagreement. Does it really matter who is right? You don't even have children yet.
Georgia
You haven't done a very good job of articulating exactly what the disagreement is. You want the child in private school and your husband is not religious? Those two things have nothing to do with each other. Unless by private school you mean a religious school which pretty much guarantees the exact opposite of a good education.
Tyla
My sons both go to a non-religious private school. There are a lot of them around.
Timothy
Not all private schools are associated with religion. So you should have no problems finding a private school that will satisfy you both.
Shea
Just have your child go to a private school & take him/her to church whenever you can. It's good you want your child to get a good education.
Aly
He is right, under the law of the holy book and land, you the wife no matter how much you hate it are property of your husband and must obey him in all things.If you did not want to be shackled then you should've thought about that before deciding you were grown enough to spread your thighs wide before the heavens and make life.
Malkav
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