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How to get over him completely and start a new normal life?

  • i had a boyfriend.after sum tym he started to behave oodly like bad behavior,irritable moody and ill mouthed.since we were in a long distance relationship it was quite difficult to mend things.i loved him very much so i found it hard to take such a turn in his behavior after so many days. i eventually found out that since he has got new friends and enjoying his life to the fullest he doesnt need me.he is selfish.but i was all of 18 and was quite lonely.so i used to plead and beg him to talk to him.the more loving i got the more he insulted me..but the only time he talked good was when he wanted to talk erotic.he told me i was hot cute and blah blah but never really cared for my feelings. slowly i gulped the things down.i have realised that he just wants me when he is bored.its not sumthing a girl wud want in a serius relationship.i really dont want to be with him now.but i havnt got over him completely.now he calls me coz he has realised that i am actually getting over him.but though i love him and want to go back i know i just should ban him out of my life. i just want to be happily single again.i have perished for him a lot.i cant take it anymore. can u give me sum useful tips to get over him and feel happy about myself and my life.??i want a single normal life. thanks in advance.

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    keep yourself busy with new hobbies like drawing, playing games or learning new languages. if u make new friends, u can easily forget him. it's really better to u in my opinion.

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write a letter describing your feelings about everything and what you would say to him about everything. Get it all out! Then burn the letter, and have that symbolize that you are now ready to move on and get rid of anything of his that reminds you of him.

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come chat with [email protected] and take out the suppressed feelings and be a free bird in no time. Releasing of stress helps relax.

Women do not "love" men ... women do not "love" their parents ... women do not "love" each other ... women do not even "love" their own children ... actually, women are totally INCAPABLE of "love". Even the ancients knew and wrote extensively about this unspoken truth. They are creatures whose sole purpose is self-preservation. Like the shark, they have small brains, no higher self/consciousness, no shred of humanity, and yet are masters of survival and have no enemies other than themselves. Only men are capable of this concept we call "love" and this is a fact, when was the last time you heard of a woman jumping in front of someone to take a bullet for them? Exactly. Women think ONLY of themselves 24 hours a day 7 days a week in a rather narcissistic manner, and this mindset is NOT conducive to chemical reactions such as "love". So guys, don't feel bad if women do not "appreciate" your "kindness", "love", or "personality" ... you are just dealing with a creature whose walnut-sized brain simply CANNOT process or reciprocate any of the things I just mentioned. That is all. The creature does not mean to "hurt" your feelings, what's happening is that your "kindness" simply does not register with it's ancient reptilian brain. It's nothing "personal" really. In short ... It's not him, it's you

Hanith

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