How should I tell my boyfriend I love him?

How do i tell my boyfriend i love him after i didnt answer him when he told me he loved me?

• ok so the both of us are 22 years old, we have been together for 3 months and now he is telling me he loves me when he told me he loved me my response was o oh my, he told me that it was ok if i couldnt say it back and that it still didnt change the fact that he loved me. I dont know if it has anything to do with my previous relationship i fell in deep love with my ex and he hurt me badly i found out that scum was married. i want to say i trust my current bf but i also trusted my ex and he was living a double life. my current bf is a sweet guy, i want to tell him i love him but just don't know how i feel like a a$s for not telling him i loved him when in fact i do love him (atleast i think its love). another thing he wants me to meet his family they are in flordia he is stationed here my biggest concern is what if they dont like me because i am black and he is white. i just dont know what to do thanks in advance for the advice.

• Answer:

  Well if you love him let him know if not verbally at least by your actions. Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let 7 years of perfect relationship before marriage. After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if wanted. If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband. Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want. Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way. Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private. On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I also like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question, Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you. Love and the Good Life will come P.S. Email me if you have another further statements [email protected]