How To Get Your Girlfriend Back?

Painful breakup how can I get my ex girlfriend back?

• night my girlfriend broke up with me after 6 amazing months im totally devastated. I am the problem I will agree that I am the cause of the break up. it was so painful she basically told me she wanted to be just friends and not to try and convince her to give me another chance because I would hurt her more. So I will tell you about the relationship and how I ruined everything. me and her were very in love we spent every weekend together EVERY weekend and every lunch time at school together. She is the most amazing girl ive ever met and i was never interested in dating but she just turned my world upside down i needed her in my life. now we often had small fights i was the cause of 90% of these but like she always said its normal to have small arguments and fights here and there in a relationship and i agreed but the problem was every time she would try to fix it or talk about it i would just say idk idk i feel really bad i don't know why I did this I was just upset. One day on a lunch time we were kind of arguing and she tried to hold my hand but I didn't hold back I wasn't very nice I regret it so much but she got upset and shed push me a bit and then try to be nice then id still be the stubborn *** that I am so eventually she kicked my shin a few times. Now once again being the *** that I am i pretended it didn't bother me when I was so hurt inside and that night we had a long talk and I said the worst thing ever I told her "I don't think I care as much anymore" which was totally untrue i was just so hurt. this hurt her so bad she started crying in front of me I wish I could go back and hug her anyways she asked me how much I cared and I said 50% even though it was always 100% if not more. and for the next month I made the number go up but never to 100% I regret it so much it just I get hurt easy and ugh Im a screw up. anyways about 2 weeks ago we had this big fight and I ignored her for 2 days or at least made it seem like it when I was actually sitting next to my phone dying for a text message so we could fix it but I should of texted first. the next day at school I was rude I didn't really talk to her just stood next to her and held her hand i was dying to fix it inside and when we started to talk about it her friend showed up </3 that night after school I wanted to text her but I waited till she texted me first I don't know why I just Idk I regret it I don't even know why I did it when Im always thinking of her and so deeply in love so that night she said maybe we should just be friends and that killed me inside. I dropped the act right away and I helped fix the problem like I should always have done but I hurt her badly I could tell i pushed her to the limit and it was never the same I had almost fixed it and we hand planned an amazing weekend but on Friday she left me</33. Im totally destroyed I cried till 4 am and i woke up crying 3 times and I actually vomited I haven't eaten today the food wont go in we text still but its me begging for us to fix it she doesn't want to fix it she wants us to only be friends im dying here I need her back so bad i regret everything I did and Ill fix everything if she just gives me a chance. Please help me how can i get one last chance? I know everything about her and If she gave me the chance it would be a guaranteed success because I would fix everything she did not like shes totally worth it im dying here and she told me she still loved me but was too hurt and wants us to move on. how can I fix this?

• Answer:

  Ok first you need to be strong if you really want her back you are going to have to work for it.Start off by sitting down and see what you need to change like I think you put on that act like you didn't care about her so she saw that and broke up with you that's what u did wrong a women wants to be held,token care of and want to know you love them all the time.You need to change something about you and make sure she sees that change and she will hopefully give you a second chance good luck my friend