When does the christmas break starts?

Winning the girl of my dreams. VERY LONG STORY please read?

• super long story, but heres what i think is key. Ive had this HUGE crush on this girl since i first saw her.. in fact, when i first saw her (didnt talk to her) i told my friend that she was the prettiest girl ive ever seen (i told her this story way after the fact); he thought i was joking, because by his standards (and apparently alot of other peoples) she isnt very good looking and i could do much better (i couldnt care less, im just trying to put this in perspective) anyways, fast forward a few months.. i had forgotten about this girl assuming id never see her again. she happens to be in one of my college classes and completely by chance we become lab partners. were friendly to each other and she is super smart (im also quite smart); i act like i dont understand anything all the time, and she always helps. so towards the end of the semester i say let me get you dinner since i wouldnt make it thru without you. it goes ok, and she drops hints for me to take her out a second time which i do.. in both of these, neither of us is completely sure if the other one thinks its a date, so the only move i make is holding her hand. after this date, we still talk but she seems distant. i ask her on an "official date" and she explains thats shes graduating soon (im a year below her) and may go out of the state for grad school and shes super busy with other stuff, and she's never had a guy really ask her out (all of which are true)... i tell her i dont care i can make it work, but she doesnt really address it.. so i assume that shes letting me down easy so i stop talking to her. about a month later, i give her a simple merry christmas text and she starts talking to me alot. i think things are going well so i ask her out again, she gives the same reasons for saying no, but asks why am i so into her when no other guy gives her the time of day, and i tell her shes amazing blah blah blah. we still text a little, but she eventually tells me to stop talking to her if im interested this is over break- we have another class together in the spring. i dont say anything to her, and a few weeks into school she starts texting me again.. she tells me all these personal things to see if im dissuaded from liking her (shes a virgin even tho shes had a bf for 2 years, and shes still good friends with him) i yet again say no i think shes amazing. she tells me no guy's really done any of the things that ive done.. at this point, things really start to pick up and i think shes gonna give me a chance but im beginning to think it wont work for all the reasons she stated (plus she likes to go to bars and do the whole college lifestyle and i dont). i sort of part intentionally sabotage myself--- this is around valentines day, so i jokingly talk about doing some absurd romantic gestures and im showing that i mean business (this is when i tell her that i thought she was the most beautiful girl from the moment i saw her lol). i figure this will have either scare her off or shell be feel compelled to give me a chance. i did this because shes already told me how she spends a ton of time with hw, and works full time, and as it is has no time to spend with her friends in her last few months of college... so i figure, hey, i'm not gonna try to steal her from her friends, and if i do, it certainly isnt gonna work long-term; maybe if i show her how great i think she is, she'll give me a chance over the summer.. eventually she says shes feeling too much pressure from all this to work out, and once again she just doesnt have time for this, and shes still really not sure what she wants, so yet again we stop talking. out of the blue one day, she messages me saying she was accepted to grad school in-state (this is very baffling as to why shed say this to me). i make a joke about how i still would like a chance with her, and once again we stop talking lol. now skip forward like 2 months from this point. in this time, i havent said ANYTHING to her, but we sit sorta close to each other in class, and we see each other at various other places (we've been like 10 feet away many many times and havent said anything-- my heart skips a beat everytime, but i have no idea what she thinks). i know theres no way im going to get her to start a relationship with a few weeks left of school plus im sure she wants to see her friends one last time; also she cant know for sure if i still like her so now shes graduating, and is gonna be instate for a while. since she kept talking to me earlier after shes told me to stop, shes clearly had second thoughts a few times about me (plus she told me shes told her mom about me, which im sure she doesnt do for every guy). how crazy is it for me to try to get something going with her over the summer, and how should i go about it? every time i see this girl, i cant get over how beautiful she is, and i know if she agrees to a date, i need to make it the most memorable thing ever afte

• Answer:

  You got cut off at the end. From what you've said, I think you should go for it. Sure, there isn't a whole lot of time, but you'll regret it if you miss this opportunity. Take a chance. The worst thing that can happen is outweighed by what could happen if she says yes. You really have nothing to lose.