What do you look for in a girl?

What is your opinion? Husband "breaking his neck" to look at another girl.?

• Late last night, my husband and I were sitting at a tableat a local restaurant when a very nicely dressed young couple walked by and were seated directly behind us. It looked like they were on a date. My husband took note of the pretty girl and watched as they were seated. He asked me to turn around to take a look at her, which I did. My husband also made obvious maneuvers to get more looks and finally, when we were ready to leave, he went to stand up and he "snapped his head" so to speak, to get one last look at her. I said to him that he really needed to stop that. He became vulgar - He told me that when he "sees good looking p#**y he likes to look and doesn't care what anybody thinks." He continued, "I will look at p#**y anytime I want as much as I want. I don't care how you f'n feel." I do not have any illusions about men, nor my husband...I know that they/he look at women, it is normal (to a degree - right?). My issue is when a man makes an obvious move to do so. In this case a few of them, with me sitting next to him. I happen to think that when a man is out, he should have self-dicipline or self-control. It is just bad manners to do that - especially when you are with your wife. Also, the way he talks about women as being "p#**y - YIKES! And then there is him stating so expressly that he doesn't caring about my feelings. We have been married for 7 months....I am used to his crude talk of women and just tossed it off as a guy in construction, but coupled with this latest blast and the fact that he is old enough - a grandfather....He insists that I am being a girl and he didn't do anything wrong. What do YOU think? I'd appreciate thoughts.

• Answer:

  Your husband doesn't know when hes so much better off! Not all pretty girls have it up top. They spend ages in front of a mirror dolling themselves up to attract attention, why because they love it & dwell on it! And they know other men are going to look, regardless of whether they are married or not! Trouble is these so called men, don't know anything about these highly made up women that have plastered all this make up on their faces to attract the opposite sex! Your husband sounds a right dork & ignorant with it & shows absolutely no respect for you whats so ever! What attracted you to him in the first instance or did he do this when he was out with someone else before you both got to know one another.- The grass is never greener the other side of the fence, although some may think it is. With age I can tell you it isn't - Everything is still the same, regardless of who it might be. Like another answer has suggested, next time you go out for a meal, make a comment like WOW that hunk that just walked in tickles my fancy & he can put his shoes under my bed anytime! And if your husband comments then return the comment that you can look any time you want & there's nothing he can do about it!! Your husband I'm sorry to say must have a piddly little brain if he thinks he's God's gift to women & that he can pull anyone he wants! Under a situation like that I'd let him go & say off you go & try & pull her if your that confident, but don't bother coming home tonight & don't come running to me when you get kicked in the balls or put down by her! Or worse still get beaten up by her boyfriend! You tend to your own wounds while I sit back and laugh at your stupidness! I have this cleshay... beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes right to the bone! And 9 times out of 10 I'm right! Cheers!! Ps. Ditch your husband because you deserve better & he's the loser long term!!