My Granny just died and I can't concentrate to study?
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Im really upset and I just can't concentrate but my exams are so important and very soon and i havent really got started on revision. I need help!
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Answer:
awww...bless you. As strange as it might seem Im going to suggest you don't think about your exams for a week - information isn't going to sink in and knowing your not able to concentrate will make you more anxious and then you'll go into your exam in a dreadful state. I think you need to take a few days out - some 'you' time. What you might find helpful is to find some time over the next few days and write down some of the happy memories you had with your granny what she meant to you. Either as a piece of writing or maybe a poem. That will help you but if you feel able to share your words it may also help other people express how they feel too. You'll then be able to get back to your studies feeling you've been able to think about your granny and look ahead in life in a much calmer state of mind. Do take care.
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Just keep thinking of the great times you had with her, you are going through a grieving process, there is nothing wrong with talking about her to other people, it will help you to get things off your chest, and it is perfectly normal to be thinking of her constantly. Life is hard but you can't afford to be missing out on good grades in exams! Just have a lot of company and talk about her to your family and close friends. Just keep your chin up and try not to let it get in the way. I am so sorry for your loss,<3
shellreen
Have you checked with your school to see if they have options for you? Many will allow you to postpone exams on the death of a relative. They almost always have some form of grief counseling available as well. There are some things that the world just has to stop for, and grief is one of them. It is a natural process when you have lost someone close to you. Let yourself feel what you're feeling, and reach out to people who may be able to help take some of the burden.
JoGeek
I know what your going through my G ma passed away 2 years ago. I know reality is hard to except but think about what she would say to you if she was here right now. I know my G ma would say I love you and get back to work study hard make me proud.
Have a chat with your teachers and explain your situation and how you feel maybe they can help.
corncrake
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