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  • I am 27 years old. I am kind of ashamed to admit this, but I have never asked a guy on a date before. I've had plenty ask me out when I was a little younger, but I always turned them down because I was either in a relationship or I just wanted to have sex. What I do is usually sleep with a guy within an hour of meeting him then talk afterwards. Out of all my random hookups in the past three years, I only remember two guys names. Now I am "stuck". One, my confidence is in shambles because I physically don't look like I used too. I used to be ripped. I had an injury and I havent been to the gym in almost 6 months now. I am still muscular and thick, but I am no where near where I used to be. I am planning on going back to the gym asap, once my back heals. I miss it so much.....oh, anyway, back on topic..... How do I approach a guy and ask him about going on a date? Or hanging out? Or something like that? I've never had to do this. A lot of guys look at me as a piece of meat and it's starting to bother me. I am "advertising" myself as a piece of meat though because I am an innocent flirt, I always wear tight muscle shirts, and I let guys touch my pecs or my upper lats. I'm not trying to be an "innocent flirt anymore", but it just comes naturally. I can't help it, it's just me. So how can I get guys to take me more seriously? Why does everyone think I want to have sex all the time because of the way I look? How do I ask them to go out on a date? I actually petrified to try this. I'm so used to being "seductive" that having a normal cpnversation with a guy is WAY OUT THERE for me. Thank you all.

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    Try befriending them and working your way up and asking for their number and dont consider having sex until you both love each other...Idk..lol

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Don't be ashamed of your past behaviour, or your behaviour to date. That's a waste of time and energy. And you are not alone. There are many people out there who, for whatever reason, only trust hookups. Next step is put your best foot forward when you are meeting people. Sometimes that's just a matter of a nice smile and an open handshake. Try meeting people at the gym when you start back. People with mutual interests are the easiest to get to know. Maybe you can find someone to help you get back into a regular routine. Don't jump at the chance to jump into bed with someone new until you get a chance to talk to them, and get to know them a bit. When you meet someone with whom you feel you want to go to bed with, ask yourself if you would want to wake up with them. If you can't honestly say yes, then you are just repeating the same behaviour that you want to change. Don't put so much effort into being seductive. Be yourself, no matter what that is. It's your best attribute.

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