How does a pet/master relationship work? (Best answer =10pts)?
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Hi, a lover of mine has professed on multiple occasions that he would enjoy having somewhat of a pet/master aspect to our relationship. He wants me to be the master. I'm really versatile and, perhaps because of my youth, and the enormous amount of sex drive that comes with being a young male, I am pretty much willing to try just about anything. I have a more dominant boyfriend so I get enough of my submissive desires filled from him, leaving me with plenty of leftover dominant energy... and I really feel the urge to exert this dominant energy... but I'm not sure how to do it in a way that will please my lover since I'm not really sure on how to be a "master" in a pet/master relationship... So, my question is, what sort of things do "pets" enjoy in such relationships? In what ways can I fulfill the role of a "master"? Please give me some tips, I really wish to please my lover. (Best answer =10pts) P.S. Yes, to answer in advance, my boyfriend knows of this lover, and, in fact, we often have threesomes
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Answer:
First, talk to your boyfriend about what he expects. Does he want sex in this scenario (not all subs do). How long does he want the play to last (just one or two scenarios, or pretty much constantly for days or weeks)? Do he want pampering like a pet, or spanked and whipped like a naughty one? You definitely have to communicate with him about this, since trust and communication is essential in this type of relationship. He should have a safe word that he can use and know that you will stop the play and respect his wishes. You should discuss the scenario first, and let him know about your desires (generally speaking, you shouldn't spring a kink or sex act on him without warning him first, since he may feel uncomfortable about not giving you what you want). As for ideas about what you should do as a dom--order him around, spank him, lead him around with a collar and leash while he has a butt-plug in him, act dominant and ask him to obey you. Ask him before starting if he has any special requests (he may have a kink, such as a foot fetish or a desire for waterworks. You may not be willing to fulfill all of them, but it should give your an idea of what to do). Act like you know what you're doing, and after wards don't be shy about asking for constructive criticism. My gf and I would often start a scene by telling a fantasy (which would often get us nice and hot) and then acting it out, with safe word in place just in case. Hope this helps. Have fun and check out the sites I provided.
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