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My fiance drinks and gets angry too much and we have a baby on the way... What do I do?

  • Someone please enlighten me.... My fiance drinks too much and gets angry when he drinks.... We always fight when he's drinking and I can't get him to stop... I used to be a heavy drinker and have since quit... I want him to see that there are so many other things to do to have fun than drink but thats what ask his friends do.... We have a baby coming in 4 months and he doesn't want to grow up.... I feel like he is living in the fantasy world where he can work and come home and have no other responsibilities.... We have tried separations only to find that neither one of us want to be without eachother.... I just don't want to argue anymore and want everything to go the way it should....what should I do?

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    I think you should move out , but I'm guessing that you won't. IF you were a heavy drinker before ,that is the thing that you had in common. Now you are going to have a baby , and you have nothing in common with him . He won't change when the baby comes - heavy drinkers love alcohol more than they love their children. Nobody can tell you what to do - when you have your baby you will know what to do.

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Start attending Al Anon meetings so that you can learn healthy ways to change your behavior and deal with his alcoholism. Because you can't change his behavior.

Ellen

You knew he was like this, got pregnant, and now expect/want/think HE'S going to change???? What fantasy would do YOU live in? He's not going to change as long as your there putting up with his bullshit. You want a better life for you and your kid? Then grow a backbone and LEAVE the SOB already. Leave him. Give him an absolutely ultimatim that either he gets sober or he will never see you - or his child - ever again. Mean it, stand by it, and do not give in. That's the only thing that will work in situations like this. You've dragged this innocent baby into this crappy situation - it's your job to fix it.

shadowtalker1

Alcoholism is a drug addiction and there isn't anything you can do about it. You need to get you AND your baby to a safe place. Most women leave abusers when they start abusing the child. He doesn't love you...IF HE DID HE WOULD GET HELP.

Karen, RN

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