Should i text him? whats he thinking , and why is he acting like this?? BEST ANSWER GETS 10 POINTS!!?
-
basically there was this guy that i was talking to, he started talking to me first because my friend said he said he thought i was beautiful and he wanted to get to know me. Anyways, i eventually realized within about 2 weeks into our talking( and we did have pretty good conversations, i thought) how immature and unexperienced he was. (I should have known, hes a freshman, im a sophmore) he wouldnt talk to me for like 4 days, then when people asked him about if we were still talking he'd still say we were . He would litererally sometimes walk right past me if he was walking with his friends of even alone in the hall. so i decided to get to the bottom of it and so i talked to him and said "Sam, i need to talk to you" and hes like "uh oh' so i asked him, "Sam, whats going on with us?" and he responds with "i dont know" and while he says that, hes like opening the lockerroom like hes really trying to get away from having this talk with me. so after that day i just stopped giving him any of my attention because i didnt feel he was really making an effort cause i was basically the one that came up to him all the time eversince we started talking, and i was the one, i felt like, doing what he should be doing. and i wanted to see how he would react. so at first he just kept doing what he was doing before and just walking by me, then when he realized i wasnt going to talk to him when we passed by each other, he started at first just ignoring me too, then like 2 weeks later, he kept staring at me in the hallways he would just like stare at me but when id look up, he'd look away really quick and at after school practice id catch him staring at me , but he would say NOTHING. and he stares at me everyday we pass each other in the hallway. also he just keeps appearing everywhere. like now i see him like 5 times a day, like he'll just show up, i use to only see him like once a day. we havent talked in like a month and i kind of miss him, should i text him? but then i thinking i shouldnt because if hes acting like this now, how will he act if we actually start dating?
-
Answer:
He's a typical guy who's clueless on what to do He tried to play hard to get but he's giving you the wrong signals! He don't want to be clingy or creepy towards u so he figured u would be coming to him giving him the attention And when u stopped talkin to him he's now confused like why isn't she trying to talk to me? Why isn't she looking at me? All guys do this to get the girls attention And when they do this u have to just play along Say hi to him and walk away Hug him and say bye Smile and look away All these things makes a guy wonder about u And that my friend is what we want it keeps a guy going My boyfriend did this to me it had me confused until I played along and now he's all over me wanting my attention!:)
A Beautiful Paradise at Yahoo! Answers Visit the source
Other answers
do not text him. Give him the space that he needs. If he wants to be with you or talk to you, he will. The more you seek him out the more chance it is for you to get hurt. If you are able to deal with this right now without getting sick and worried to the point that it effects your daily life, leave it just as that, you dont want to get your feelings involved anymore.
back off from him. If he doesnt chase you then he doesnt want you
OMG we are totally in the same situation . :)) well, almost.. FOR ME, i think you should confront him.. tell him about what he really thinks about you after getting to know him ,, and if he tries to deny it again.. repeat to him all that he's done like staring at you and stuff.. what i did was i talked to him .. but since mine was kind of an open guy.. i kinda told him i missed him.. and well, let's just say it went okay.. :))
He still likes you, but doesn't really know how to express it. I believe he was playing hard to get a first, so it was perfect when you started playing hard to get back. Guys will usually be the ones to leave a relationship where the girl seems too easy first, but once they really how cute/great you are, regret it. You are right, he is immature in inexperienced. If I were you, I would talk to him as a friend but not try to get in a relationship because you can do better than him.
He is making it painfully obvious that he has no interest in dating you. Do not make a fool of yourself by chasing him and throwing yourself at a guy who doesn't even want to talk to you. Instead talk to some new guys, find someone who is interested in you and likes talking to you, there is no point wasting anymore time on him.
Related Q & A:
- Why is yahoo messenger acting like this and how can I fix it?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- What's the best answer for why you left a previous job?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- Altering my business card, What should I change to make it better? (In exchange for 10 points B/A Thank you?
- Why must we wait 4 hours before we can choose BEST ANSWER?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
- Why Can't I Choose 'Best Answer' Anymore?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
Just Added Q & A:
- How many active mobile subscribers are there in China?Best solution by Quora
- How to find the right vacation?Best solution by bookit.com
- How To Make Your Own Primer?Best solution by thekrazycouponlady.com
- How do you get the domain & range?Best solution by ChaCha
- How do you open pop up blockers?Best solution by Yahoo! Answers
For every problem there is a solution! Proved by Solucija.
-
Got an issue and looking for advice?
-
Ask Solucija to search every corner of the Web for help.
-
Get workable solutions and helpful tips in a moment.
Just ask Solucija about an issue you face and immediately get a list of ready solutions, answers and tips from other Internet users. We always provide the most suitable and complete answer to your question at the top, along with a few good alternatives below.