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Can someone help me with these questions I have about 'stuff' I did last night with my boyfriend?

• Can someone help me with these questions I have about 'stuff' I did last night with my boyfriend? Were both 18 before I start and have been going out a few weeks now. I know hes not using me for any 'favours', we've been best friends for ages! Last night was the first time we did anything intimate. We have both agreed not to do 'it' for a while. We got a bit carried away last night but he was really sweet and made sure it's what I wanted. And it was. Let's just say we both explored down stairs haha and that was all! But it was my first time doing any of that stuff with anyone and I just have a few questions... 1. When I was exploring down stairs in his house, I told him I didn't know what I was doing. So he put his hand on mine and started rubbing it up and down. I continued it. Then be started rubbing his hand up and down his leg at the same pace I was.. Is this normal? 2. Also when he was coming close to the end he started to take over and I started rubbing his footballs.. Should I be offended by this and work on it or something? 3. Before he got rock hard, I rubbed the tip with my thumb a lot but it didn't really make him get any harder.. Has this any effect on guys? 4. When he started on me.. I was very tight and he could only get one finger in a wee bit.. I have never 'pleasured' myself but I'm pretty sure that he should be able to get in a bit further. I do think I was very tight but will it get easier and not as sore as we go along? Thanks anyone for any help you can give to me.. I really appreciate it! :) x Oh and also any tips on how to do my job on him a bit better would be really appreciated!

• Answer:

  i think everything you did was fine unless he said it wasn't, if you haven't done anything like this before then it's normal to need some practise and maybe you could ask him if he found it alright and as you said that you were friends he might be able to tell you what you were doing wrong! when he was fingering you the reason that you found it tight was because you haven't done it before and it wasn't a normal experience, your right he should be able to get his finger in abit more than that! if you do it more often i think it will get a lot easier and you just don't need to be worked up about it, just relax and it will be a lot easier!