How deep/wide does a cut need to be to scar?

Cut Myself.. Need help, Please.?

• Okay I'm in my teens and well il just come out and say it, I carved a boys name into my wrist with a Compas. It was deep but the cut has healed but it scar'd fairly bad. I done it over a month ago. I have been going trough depression and was suicidal at the time so please dont give me hate about how carving a boys name into my wrist is one of the most stupid things anyone could do, cause i no that. The boy, He's my bestfriend. I told him I Cut myself because i trust him and he has helped me the best he can, hes always there for me so i told him. I just didnt mention that it says his name (and it has a broken heart next to it) and whenever he asked to see it i wouldnt show him.I wanted to Die around the time and he stopped me, He told me if i go he goes, I could never do that to him he has a bright future ahead of him i wasnt gonna ruin it for him. I think why i did it in the first place was cause i like him, alot. I have for years now. He had a girlfriend at the time and me and her dont get on at all. She used try to make me jealous when she was with him and everything. I also have Anger Problems and one day at school she made me so jealous and mad, when i came home i started punching the boxing bag Non stop as hard as i could and burst all my nuckles. My family didnt no what to do, They taught i was gonna kill myself, but i could hardly tell them that i cut a boys name into my wrist (right on the veins) but i couldnt watch my mom being so worried about me, so i told her. She made me show her and she just asked why would i do that sort of thing i have nothing major to worry about at this age, and i no that and to be honest i really dont no why i did it. I wish i could go back in time and stop myself. I hate myself for doing it! I just need it off my wrist, so i can move on and forget i even did it. It sickens me that i actually did something so stupid like that. I have been using Bio-Oil and Savalon healing Gel but its not making any difference to the scar. I dont like talking to my mom about it cause i no it upsets her and i dont want to tell anyone else. I really dont no what to do at this stage, But i really need somebodys help. I said I'd give this a go, cause i honestly just want it off my wrist as fast as i can so i can forget i ever done something like it.. Thanks, Sarah xx

• Answer:

  try natural shea butter - not the gooey kind - you can probably find it in a herbal store or an organic store and its usual a little hard, rub some of that on it twice a day & it should help it go away. It helped my scars go away & they were nasty [ i use to be an athlete ] so i hope it works for you! (: