Im 15 and my parents want me to get a job...?
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Okay, so I'm a 15 year old girl and recently my parents have been hounding on me and telling me that I should get a dang job. So I mean I guess I understand where they are coming from, but I mean my mom gets mad at me when I tell her that I will think about it. It's like I'm 15 years old, I just started high school and turned down sports to focus on my school work. They just keep on telling me that I need to make my own money and get a job and start my life and all, but I barely go out with friends, I rarely ask for money because I know money is a bit tight at the moment and all so it is no big deal that I don't have money. I get good grades and I am very, VERY honest with both of my parents (have been more often with my dad), I asked my parents about weed before I tried it and then promised both of them I would tell them when I tried it, which I did. I don't go out every Friday night and get high or drunk I am a good kid. Of course I would love to go to the movie theatre and just give people their tickets for their movie and get paid for that, I mean THAT WOULD BE AWESOME!!! I would love to do that, but I want to focus on school and have a relaxing life. And yes, of course I'm always wanting things, I don't always ask for them, but I am always thinking of different things that I want like a new pair of shoes or to go get my hair done, but those things can wait and I don't NEED them just as I don't NEED a job because I don't NEED money. I know some people my age whom have a job, but other than that not so much... I feel like they are being cheap...and a bit unfair..am I being immature? Am I being unfair? I just feel like they are pushing this on me when really it's okay that I don't have a job at 15, it's okay that I don't have money, it's okay that I don't go to concerts and the movies with my friends. My mom continues to tell me I should get a business card and start baby sitting the kids in my neighborhood (which I would love to do) but I have only babysat one kid once and other times the parent asked me I had to turn them down because I was busy the days they needed me. The other kids in the neighborhood, I don't know, AND my MOM doesn't even know the neighbors so how does she expect me go introduce myself to BABYSIT their kids. They would have to trust a complete stranger with their children which just doesn't sound right...My dad tells me I should get a job so I can do things with my friends when really I don't do that many things with my friends that require money. Yeah, I want stuff for myself, but I don't really need money to hang out with friends, I'd rather just hang out at someones house or something you know? I guess I should get a job, but then where do I start? I hate going to the high school job fairs because I don't want to do those stupid little jobs, if I'm going to work I want a real job like McDonald's or a clothing store. Like I said for jobs like those, where in hell do I start?! Do I just waltz in and ask them for a job application???? SO thanks all for your time! (:
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Answer:
well, u prob wont get any job considering ur age but i tried at the age i got one when i was 16, its the best time coz u dont have t pay bills etc so its all urs look on papers, apply online, even little chip shops r good or big tescos plus its really good for on ur CV to say youve had experience or consider looking for something ur interested in i.e hairdressing, or photography- contact a local photographer and ask for experience or a few lessons, or schools, nurseries, vulunatary places but i wud wait till ur atleast 16
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15 is on the early side of working...most jobs, or all (i'm not sure) require you to be at least 16, many times even older than that. If your parents are really getting on your case about it maybe you can make a deal with them. When you turn 16 you will start looking for a job but until then you want to focus on school and have a little freedom. I would suggest (when you do start looking) go to places you are interested in. Like me; I like swimming, bar tending, serving. etc. So I work at a golf resort as a pool waitress. Whenever you get applications, dress nicely and be very friendly. All you have to do is ask for an application. It's easy :)
well usually people start working at age 16. u can try some easy jobs like you mentioned.
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