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How can you tell if a guy likes you?

Im gay and i like this guy. im not sure if he is gay. how can i tell if he likes me or not?

  • im gay and i like this guy. he looks straight but im not so sure about him. he notices things about me like no one has ever had. he is nice and gentle. he keeps teasing me all the time. we study together sometimes and we r good friends. he is so nice to me. he is a catholic roman and religious. people can tell im gay and i showed him my interest in him. he never gave me any sign but i feel like there is a bond between the two of us. he is a great friend and i cant just bite the bullet and tell him cause i dont wanna lose him. what makes it even more confusing is the fact that he is a religious catholic roman and i cant even tell if he likes me. i think im falling for him. what should i do? and how can i tell if he likes me the way i like him?

  • Answer:

    You ask him

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catholics are loving and love is not required to be only with people you wish to have sex with. as a catholic he may want to be just one of your loving friends as I would to all my friends. some of my friends think I hate gay people but that breaks my heart to hear that. Peace Be with You, My Brother in Christ

Andrew

Well if your out, then go for it. If your not, weigh your options. If he goes no. All you have to say is "just checkin'" if he gets all weird its his own problem for not taking it as a compliment(depending on how you say it, and not being all weird.)

dun dun dun

Develop a strong friendship first. That would be the best option considering you dont know whether he likes you back or not and also that you are shy, so it would be a lot easier to come out and say something like that afterwards...

Sandra S

Trust me, you will not lose him if you tell him!!! He already knows!!! I know it sounds crazy, but you HAVE to ask him if he is gay! Your heart will be pounding, you will be nervous as hell, so do it over texting. But you need to do it or you will regret it for the rest of your life. Two months is enough to ask someone if they're gay. You can just say "hey man, can I ask you something and you better be honest." and then just ask "are you gay?". If he hesitates to answer and then escapes the question, he's definitely gay. If he says right away "no", then he is not. If he asks you "I'm straight, but are you gay"? You can just say "I'm not sure, but I felt like I could trust you and no, I'm not hitting on you." It's important to let the straight guy know you're NOT hitting on him, so that he feels comfortable with you. Just tell him you value him as a friend. Good luck!

Danny

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