How can I get noticed?

How can i get noticed?

• I feel invisible where ever i go, i was out shopping with my friends last week and we played truth or dare. My dare was to go up to these cute guys who were sitting across from us at this picnic sort of area and to just start talking to them ( which for me was hard because I'm quite shy.) So I went up to them and said hi and they just ignored me it was so embarrassing and awkward. In the end I just walked away, and later on i bumped into this guy and i said sorry and all that and he just nodded picked up his stuff and walked on. Now i know i'm not drop dead gorgeous but i don't think you would describe me as ugly either. I'm fit and am just a normal looking girl so why do people ignore me so much??? So what I want to know is how can i get noticed more but without changing myself, i don't want to have to become a whole new person just so i'll get noticed. I don't want to be invisible any more, please help!!

• Answer:

  I don't think it's you, I think its them. Guys these days just want to get in your pants, so if you're not gonna offer that to them, they're not gonna bother. (And please don't offer them that, society will lose any respect it had of you, plus good guys don't go after girls that give themselves to anyone and everyone.) The second thing, people these days are busy, and what the second guy did, many people would have done whether or not you consider yourself average or model material. Don't try to change yourself just so people will notice you because you're just going to get the wrong people to notice.