How to be serious and stick to a commitment?

Was I right to ask for commitment?

• I met a 35yo female on a dating site and despite sleeping with each other on the second and third date she still wants to date a man she has been in contact with her but not met up with yet. She knows I'm not happy about it but believes she has been honest with me so no harm is being done. That she's keeping her options open to find the right man to settle with and that she likes me but isn't sure yet what she wants yet. I did ask how she would feel if I did that and she said she hadn't thought about it. When she left the other morning I felt down beat when I should have been beaming. I would never dream of sleeping with someone, keep dating them and dating other girls and expect that she would be happy with that and I don't accept that she can do this to me either. I have principles and morals and don't feel I should compromise those and that she was showing no regard for my feelings. I spoke to her and told her this in a softened version and that I wouldn't ask her not to see this guy but Im going to stick to the principles I have and that I need to be treated by the same principles. I wasnt looking for long term commitment but a commitment to seeing if we could work and if not then we look elsewhere. She agreed to that saying that she had felt a bit bad when she left that morning and considered it may not be right to be sleeping with someone and then go on a date with someone else and that she wouldn't see him and give us a shot. Thing is one of my friends said that I've been controlling and now Im worried I shouldn't have said it and left her to meet him. I stuck to what I believe is morally right and that if we like each other enough to sleep with each other then lets give it a go. What do you think?

• Answer:

  Relax..... u did the right thing! It wuld neva hav worked if u were unhappy about her seeing other people!!!