How to become a creative person?

How can I change who I am to become a better person?

• Just the past couple weeks I've felt so worthless and realized that I am very unhappy with who I have become. I used to be a happy, funny, kind, sweet girl. I was pretty well liked by everyone, and seemed to get along with people pretty well. But last year I went through some really rough experiences. And once they were over, I just didn't feel the same. I kind of treated people badly and justified it by thinking "Oh, they have no idea what I've been through." I figured that I just needed a break from being so nice, but now I've realized that those bad traits have stayed with me. I really feel like I'm a kind hearted person, but for some reason I always get so agitated when I'm around certain people and end up hurting them. I've become judgemental, I've strayed from my religion, I've treated people much worse than they deserve, and I don't feel close to anyone anymore. I'm not the fun, kind person I used to be, and what scares me is that I have no idea how to become that person again. I feel trapped by my emotions and my actions, and I don't want to be this way anymore. I want to change, and I'm willing to do so, but I don't know how. How do I become the good person I used to be?

• Answer:

  I've had times where I've felt exactly what you described... It's okay. Just take a vacation go somewhere away form everyone if that isn't possible try to take deep breaths every time you see a person and compliment them. I know sometimes it's hard but if you feel annoyed with people but if you want to be mean or say something bad about someone just try not talking to them.... Sometimes it's okay to feel that way just try taking deep breaths and trying hard to be a better person.