How To Win Back Your Ex Wife?

Boyfriends ex-wife using his dog to win him back?

• Been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He has been divorced for one year. His ex created quite a few problems during the start of our relationship. He continued to rent their old apartment and but she left some her things there claiming she didn't have the space in her new place. She has since moved to another place and all her stuff is gone. I have never met her but she wanted the divorce, I have the feeling lately that she may regret it now. My boyfriend gave her their dog which he loves dearly as he felt he wasn't home enough during the day to take care of her. It's been three months since, he told me he wouldn't see the dog again unless we both went to see him on a day she wasn't around. Now the dog is spending the weekend with him, I'm guessing the ex is going away. I wasn't aware that they were on good enough bases for her to ask him to dog sit. I have mixed feelings, I love the dog, but the dog keeps me from sleeping at night. It tries its best to keep us apart and if I try to move her she yelps as though I'm hurting her and it makes me seem like a witch. It's a been a problem in the past although I tried not to complain, joked about it instead. But my boyfriend is aware of it. I also feel that his ex is suing the dog to possibly re-create ties with him. This is based on a few other factors, but the situation with the dog just makes me unseasy and I'm not happy about. So, I feel like if I say anything I become the bad guy. I think my options are to a.) ask my boyfriend up-front where things stand between him and his ex. b.) not say a word of complaint, act happy about the dog coming over and buy him a toy, but the down fall is this might encourage my boyfriend to have the dog over even more and thus more contact with his ex. c.) not bring it up as an issue, simply come up with an excuse why I can't come over on the weekend or sleep on the couch. D.) ask my boyfriend to keep the dog outside the bedroom so I can sleep. Any advice, am I making too much of this?

• Answer:

  Hard to say really? Being a woman, you may know better than I. How one would manipulate your boyfriend to get back with her...if that's the case? You definitely need to talk with him about how it's effecting you. Or she may try using her cat next to sway him. And I don't mean the one with pointed ears and a fury tail either. The one that's just tail! d;o)