Does fitrum really work?

Is it really hard to believe that I work evening and weekends while my fiance takes care of our son?

• I recently got a job after staying home with our 14 month for an entire yr. Basically my job is in retail and I work evenings and weekends so I end up working like 23 hours a wk. My co workers have asked me is my son in day care and I tell them no. As soon as my fiance gets off work he watches our son for me so I can work. The thing is that they keep asking me the same question every wk about my son and who's watching him. I even had one ask me how was work today? I told him I do not work during the day, I basically am a homekeeper during the day and retail clerk at night. It is getting ridiculous as I feel like they think I am lying. I am 24 my fiance is 29 he is an engineer and I work retail. Why do you think my co workers keep asking me the same questions regarding our situation. I have only been working here for about 3 months. Some of the male co workers have even asked to meet my fiance which is odd since I dont really talk about him at work. Most of the people I work with either do retail full time or they do it part time and have a full time job during the day. I just feel like they think I am lying when I tell them during the day time I stay home with our son. Also I find it odd they want to meet my fiance. If I were to put myself in their shoes I would never fathom asking a co worker to meet their significant other

• Answer:

  They don't really care. They just ask because they are bored. Honestly you belong home and your husband should be able to take care of the family. Retail...exchange for your child and family every moment? . I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband. Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want. Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way. Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private. On another note: Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you. Love and the Good Life will come P.S. Email me if you have another further statements [email protected]