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How do I remove a mouseover effect on myspace?

My friend got mad with me when I told him to take the thug and drunk pics off his facebook. Why did he get mad?

  • I told man look, I know you're personality is to have fun, smoke, drink, club, and thats fine. But if you're trying to receive and maintain a professional job, you need to do some mopping. I told him the pics from your hi5, myspace, and facebook showing you smoking blunts, pants hanging, super big clothes,waving liquor bottles, you need to remove those pics. I told you can post a shirtless pic, or a pic of you in a bar drinking beer in the can, the effect those completely different. I told him he is better than those thug or drunk pics. He got really mad with me, and didnt speak to me for 5 days, but came around.

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    lol. Man's problems. Maybe he thought you crossed him line and tried to be his father and teaches him some lessons or something. Maybe he felt like you pushed his button. I know you're a good friend for being that thoughtful for him, but you need to take a step back sometimes and don't let yourself appears like you're being judgmental to him or bossing him.

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people dont like hearing the truth , so its best to keep your opinions to your self becauuse people are gonna end up hating up hating you or avoid you

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Since he's come around, you might ASK him why he got mad. But it's totally predictable what he'll tell you, NOT necessarily in these terms. You were attacking at least three aspects of his self worth: * His self-image. (If he's black, this is complicated by the intersection of black pride w/ the thug stereotype.) * His current judgment. * His judgment in his past behavior. AND he probably realized that your criticism was right, which will make any guy mad--particularly when it's coming from another guy, because we males are internally wired to be competitive w/ one another. So of course he got mad and defended himself. P.S. I assume he IS trying to get and maintain a professional job?

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