Cant seem to get my messages?

I cant get over my ex after 3 or 4years im very depressed and cant seem to know what makes me happy anymore?

• Im always thinking about him, i moved on and had a couple boyfriends since that time but i just cant shake him im moving on partially because of my family they dont approve of him but that wasnt the reason i decided not to see him it was because he cheated and told me about it and my family practicly forced me to leave him we moved to another town but somehow i cant seem to be happy about anything even when i get things i want idk if that has something to do with him but i sure think so i dont ever want to see him i rather my friends tell him im in another country then see him again. A part of me has feelings but doesnt want to admit and the other part just wants to move forward like ive been doing already and he has as well. Im feeling rlly unhappy and i dont know what to do someone please give me some advise and good advise!

• Answer:

  He is a cheater, move on. You deserve better Look at the sky, look at the tree. The joy from everything around you is your happiness. Your free right now so take advantage of it. You never know maybe he was just a jerk, politely saying. Good that he is gone, make sure he doesn't come back. Be strong for your sake. Relationships are obligation, yet enjoyment, but there is responsibilities. Make sure this is the way you want to go. If you do, join chat rooms, clubs, hobbies and meet people that like what you like. There is so much you can do, start with little steps and keep at it. : Also now focus on your school, job and chores. Give love to both parents, help where you can. School= College you want to go to, major you will go for, student aid of fee waivers or even scholarships ( go to the college your thinking about and just go to the student center and schedule a consular to discuss all this. They are very helpful. You might need to revisit to check that your on track. You can even take college course now if you wanted. Make sure your high schooling is on top of it's game. Job=find any decent job near by that works with your schedule. Maybe waitress which gets good tips and you can talk so time will go by fast. Make sure to be smart, because there are many smart guys out there trying to trick girls with money. Chores, just do them asap. I hope this all will help. Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let 7 years of perfect relationship before marriage. After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if wanted. Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband. Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want. Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way. Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private. On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question, Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you. Love and the Good Life will come P.S. Email me if you have another further statements [email protected]