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What's the point of decaffeinated coffee?

He is leaving in 2 weeks time should i bother to meet him for coffee and a chat?

  • Ok , met t guy socially on sunday, i noticed he was looking at me most of the evening, i didn't know what to think ( perhaps he knew me , perhaps he recognized me from somewhere, anyway as we were at a party i didn't think much but every time i happened to look around there he was looking at me from the far side of the room over and over again, when i happened to past near him to go to get something to drink he approached me to say that he was shy and he would have asked me to dancing but he was not sure and asked where was my partner or my hubby i said i am single and we laugh, when he was leaving the party a few hours later he crossed the room and said good night to me and would i meet him for coffee i said i will meet him at the next party there in a few weeks time . he said he was returning to work in different country. we arranged to meet in a coffee shop tomorrow, we dont have each each other phone numbers, now I am thinking he is leaving in 2 weeks time should i bother to meet him for coffee and a chat whats the point? ( he is from this area and his family are here but he works for the past 20 years in different country like UK and others) I dont know him at all seems to be a nice country man ( looks wise not the tyype i go for but he was nice,if you were in my situation what would you do? thanks for you reply( he is single and we both mature people) not teenages lol

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    Go for it, you will not know what may have been if you do not. If things do not develop, then you may gain a great friend instead.

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I agree- what's the point? Not so much because he is leaving but because you weren't physically attracted to him. He was obviously attracted to you and wants you waiting here as his back-up when he happens to be home to see family. Bad, bad idea all of the way around actually.

Miss

If you like him, I don't know why you wouldn't meet him before he leaves. Just because it won't likely lead to a long-term relationship doesn't mean he can't be your friend. New friends can show up in very surprising places!

Kathy

Ask yourself what is the worst that could happen, then ask yourself what is the best thing that could happen. Weigh the two answers and decide from there. My personal opinion is, go have coffee. At least you will have coffee in a public place with a man who is attracted to you. If things do not work out, then you can make a graceful exit and still have had a cup of coffee and some chat.

Torlan

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