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How can i carry on a conversation with my partner of 4 years?

  • Me and my partner have been together for 4 years. We both still live with our parents but still find it hard to carry on a conversation through text for long. When we do have a conversation over text it only last a few minutes and we send things like "what you up to?" he'll reply and ask me and that'll be the end of the conversation. We used to text for hours and i never used to struggle on things to say. We see each other fairly often (3-4 times a week) and i would imagine there would be a lot to say but can never find anything interesting to talk about.

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    This is very simple. Your both are at a point of your relationship that you both are being more responsible. Now if you like to talk more on text just flirt with him, keep in cute and fun and interesting. Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let 7 years of perfect relationship before marriage. After 7 years of perfect marriage then a child if wanted. Either way for later as a wife if you decide make sure to take care of him always in the love making area. I hope you can be stay at home wife ([no school]events with guys around unless your husband is there 100%) that takes care of all the woman things and he is taking care of all the man things like lifting, fixing working outside and handling all those jerks, and if you do work outside you know what I mean. I hope you can be a home wife so the marriage can be a loving one with peace. Always talking is good. Find a private place to talk with time to talk. Never teach, just inform if necessary and in a meek manner. Handle the kids and teach them with few words and listen well, pay attention to details. If some parts kids can't be handled then inform the husband. Be a good wife and make sure all the cooking and cleaning is done. Stay Fit, Smell Good, Dress well. Make sure to make love when ever either of you want. Be meek. Quick to listen, slow to speak. Only tell him things when needed. Never teach him. If you do tell him something make sure it is kindly. Handle the kids, and if you notice you can't for sure then inform him in a kindly way. Hugs and kisses are always good any time, instead in front of the guys otherwise the guys might want some too. Make sure to let him know to keep the making love part private. On another note you seem to be a very nice person, so I like to add that what ever person you want a serious relationship with, take your time (years) and really really really see if this is the person you will spend your whole life with. If you can even better never get married and just enjoy your life with nothing serious, make sure the other party knows your intentions. I like to add though, in marriage it is a different kinda love, a very valuable kinda love. Always do whats best for everyone like what you did when you asked this question, Try your best. Love like you never love before. This is the best way for love to come and start surrounding your life. May love be around you, through you and is you. Love and the Good Life will come P.S. Email me if you have another further statements [email protected]

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If conversation is that forced with your partner of FOUR years then it sounds like its not meant to be. Conversation should only be that forced if it was your partner of four weeks!

Meg

Hi Lucy, I been married to my wife for about 6 years now. We do our own thing a lot of the time. However we still have conversations. I would have to say best way to spark conversations is by introducing things you both have not done yet. Like go camping together, or a water park. maybe just going down to the beach. You gotta create new conversations sometimes, when the old ones have all been told. Another thing I notice is your partner might just not be much of a phone fan anymore. It can get old texting back and forth even if your really in love. Don't forget to sometimes just ask weird or dream like questions about things...anything really. Also know what your partner is interested in...Hobbies or whatever and ask them big questions... For example: I love video games. My wife....well she just dont like them at all....but once in awhile she will sit and ask me a few questions about the game and even complement it. Ha...she trys to complement they don't come out the best because she knows nothing about it but I understand her :) Anyways thats just from my experience. I hope you both can talk a little more like you want to. Edit * Not trying to be rude Meg* But Love is something that you have to work at. This includes conversations sometimes. I don't believe in the Its not meant to be and things like that. Love is what you make it, it just depends on how much your willing to do to make it work when things start falling apart.

Jeremy

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