Why do guys like girls who stand up for themselves?

Do guys notice the girls who stand out from the crowd and are behaving differently from other girls?

• for example if everyone is in a classroom chatting and behaving like *** hats would a guy notice a girl who is acting differently from them all by sitting up the back quietly and reading a book instead? what kinds of things attract boy's attention in a good way?

• Answer:

  My boyfriend and I met in high school in a crafts class, and he said the first thing he noticed about me was that I completely destroyed the pot I was trying to make 4 times before actually getting it right lol. So in a way I was acting a little differently, but at the same time he was able to notice me. I was a pretty quiet person in high school, and no one really noticed me. Random people would only make remarks about how quiet I was and how they thought I had my nose in the air all of the time. But that wasn't me, and they'd soon figure that out. I even thought the same way about other quiet people in the classroom. If you're reading a book in the back of the classroom, others will think you don't want to be bothered. As hard as it is for me to say this, try to engage in the conversations around you, just to break the ice; but don't pretend to be someone you're not. Be yourself. Why would you want any boy to notice you for something you're not anyway. If they can't accept you, they're not worth your time, trust me. And I still keep this in the back of my mind, I'd rather be happy and alone than unhappy and with someone who I know is completely wrong for me.