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How can i quit smoking?

How can I get my husband to quit smoking ciggs n pot?

  • He spends 25 every 3 days in quarters that weigh 12 n spend 35 bucks a week on ciggs. we just finally got our own house n a can't afford to spend this extra money! I can't stand the smell of any of the **** n it pisses me off that he is killing him self smoking a pack of ciggs a day and its like he is too blind to see. I have to be around the second hand smoke which is worse than actually smoking a cigg myself. The pot doesn't bug me as much coa we use to smoke together but I was a stay at home mom then n didn't have to work but now I do n can't be smoking when I have to drop randoms. I just hate Gavin to spend so much money on it! But I HATE the cigarettes! They are disgusting! What should I do? I tell him constantly I wish he would stop smoking n he says I know I know baby. He quit once for a week then started sneaking em at work n now he is back to buying them. It sucks. Need advise. Smoking is not a sexy thing At all!

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    Not only that can make you lose all the money your make but also destroy your entire life in the future: having babies... Your husband will most likely end up with serious health issues and boy are you gonna spend more money... Tell him stop or I leave, you look very pretty and i really think u deserve better!

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Duke

tell him you went to the doctor and they said you were getting badly sick because you were in the presence of second hand smoke for long periods of time. then say he either stops or youll break up cause you gotta get away from the smoke

hazel

be stern about it. I know my former wife was able to make me quit smoking. she just took to nagging me to death till i finally just threw them out the window and never looked back. honestly though, just be straight and direct with him. I don't think pot is bad but if he puts it before his family and bills then it is a problem. that wouldn't fly.

Armstrong

Just start shopping around for life insurance, and leave lots of brochures in places he is sure to see them. You might also tell him, that if he prefers, he could pay YOU the equivalent of whatever he spends on smokes, and YOU could kill him slowly.

Gotta Know

Until he is ready to quit, ask him to smoke outside. Eventually, you may have to lay down the law and hit him with an ultimatum, which is never good, but often necessary. You will probably have many arguments over this.

bender_xr217

Why did you marry him if he was like this? Tell him to stop or pack your bags.

Watson

Well, I don't even smoke, but your nagging made me want to light up. Approach him calmly. Tell him you guys just can't afford it anymore. You understand its an addiction. Bribe him if you have to, tell him he needs to work through the cravings. Positive reinforcement. Set a goal with the money he saves, like a trip or a new T.V. Make sure he is always going outside, regardless of cigs or pot. Both will give your kids asthma. Work with him, instead of against him, but stand your ground.

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