Haram to date, how will i find the right guy then?

Well here in Egypt, the middle and higher class have this tradition. Let's say there's a guy who likes you and you like him, and you both have talked to each other a couple of times in a public area like at work or at the college... The guy goes to the family and asks her parents to get engaged to the girl. If the parents agree, the couple then start a 1-2 year period where they can go out with each other under the supervision of their parents. And by supervision I don't mean parents go out with them and stay with them, parents just get to know what's going on to make sure nothing wrong happens. The couple are allowed to go out alone but only in public places like a restaurant for example. Anyway, In this period, they get to know each other better. If they still like each other, they get married. If not and they had disputes and fights and discovered other dark sides of each one's characters, they break up.

What do you mean you're half Arab and half White? What is that suppose to mean? I'm all Arab and I'm White Caucasian! *rolling my eyes* .. you're talking about Arabs like .. you know what? whatever .. An an answer to your question .. There is something called ENGAGEMENT that where you get to know the guy you've been engage to with the blessing of your family and with so much rules .. if not you can always break the engagement .. Dating is not allowed and never will be .. If you don't feel like marrying yet so it be .. take your time, it's your life and future after all .. Allah knows best Peace

Why do you like us Asian boys so much? All most of us do is use girls and throw them away like pieces of meat. We see girls who like dating as little play things and dating girls like you is nothing but sex, your just a nice pair of legs and no more always remember that. Just being honest. Of course not all of us are bad, some of us grow up and have more sense... Take it from my experience dating will only lead to heart break... I remember I use to have a little fling thing with this Iranian girl when I was in secondary school... even then as teenagers it didn't go so well whole lot of stuff went down... Things were even worse with white girls... Hence why I stuck to my own kind Desi's... that wasn't much of an improvement... My point is dating will only lead to issues... You can find the right man by maybe accidently meeting someone and if you have a crush on him... instead of dating, find out if he is ready for marriage and get engaged, then talk to the person and meet with that person with relatives present and then see if that person is ready. Drama free, heart break free, no issues, no Haram. If your ready for marriage I can hook you up with some asian/blacks I know loads. ;p P.S Your fussy when it comes to guys? That is a good thing... I am really fussy and picky when it comes to girls... and mega high maintenance... It is a good quality to have, you portray high value for yourself and high esteem.

The peace for you dear questioner, there are plenty of banana boat asians at in those weird mosques. So becareful of those, especially if they're of a sect. Ultimately, just find yourself a mosque, and phone up, and ask that you're looking to get married. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3c5m4Ja4RHM <---- here's a video on husband finding. And there's a good reason you're fussy, but ultimately pray for this dua Rabbana hab lana min azwajana wa dhurriyyatina qurrata ayunin wa-ij'alna lilmuttaqeena immama http://corpus.quran.com/wordbyword.jsp?chapter=25&verse=74#%2825:74:1%29 I learned that dua from this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-IQZItyS4c Half arab half white..? Do you by any chance live in Hounslow, and have sisters here online?

In traditional arab culture, the parents find the husband. Either order them to do their part of the work the islamic way, or just don't follow their rules. Or stay a virgin for life.

It is up to you. Forced marriage is forbidden and arrannged marriages occur less often than a couple of centuries ago because humans are constantly evolving and developing. Besides why are you thinking of marriage- you are only 16. I'm 17 and i live in bham but i don't really think about it. It will happen when your older. Just live your life the way you think is right.

Either you date like normal people do in Britain or you marry a total stranger your parents tell you to marry and hope for the best. At 16 you are too you to think about it.