Why am i getting bored with guys. i am a girl ***long***?
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for the past year, guys are just starting to bore me......i use to be like i guess "boy-crazy". i had 5 boyfriend's....and like i just am getting bored with them....ever since my last boyfriend that i broke up with which was last October of 2010. and after that i just got bored....and like when i mean bored....i mean i don't care anymore.....then this guy took me on this Bullshit date (movies). but i only went to prove myself he was just one of those guys who wanted something....and i was right. then after that i didn't care for guys anymore.....i was just not focused on them....not caring for them anymore. this October i started to daydream about being in a relationship with a girl....and it definitely sparked my attention...like i tried to go back daydreaming about being with guy....but i went back to daydreaming about being with a girl because i liked it....it was different. so i did that for 2 months straight ...and i loved it....it was different...and i seemed more connected to it (i do maladaptive daydreaming) and so then i had stopped because i began to develop a crush like not a girl-crush. like a crush crush. so then the whole time i was liking her....i got butterflies around her....i would get jealous...and i would always think of her consistently for 3 months straight. and with the guys.....i don't remember getting butterflies....or thinking of them consistently. and i tried to get over her but i just couldn't ...i was hard. with guys....i would get over them pretty easily. the thing is while i was liking my crush (katie)...i was questioning my sexuality....and as i started to question it....i started to remember these certain girls....and i took me a while to remember it but these girls i started to remember i had crushes on because i went back and i started to remember how i felt around them. anyways....then it was getting frustrating.....i had to ask myself "was i sexually attracted to girls?" then i forgot what sexual attraction felt like....then i tried to remember guys....and was i sexually attracted to them? and some say it means when you want to have sex with them....i don't look at attractive guys like that or attractive girls....i don't say "oh i want to have sex with them"....i just don't. so then i just kept myself at bi-curious...now my sexual orientation is not my question. my question is why am i starting to get bored with guys....like my friends would be like that....i want to be with him....and he's so sweet....and i will just start to think "so? every guy acts sweet" ...guys have played me over and over. i have hurt one guy in the past...i have been in relationships basically that when we broke up ...they would call me a slut. so that's how it went. i just want to know why i'm so bored with guys ...like i wouldn't mind dating a girl at all but i know i would like get scared if a girl asked me out. some guys this year have admitted to liking me....and i just am not interested....like for example this guy said he wanted to kiss me...and i really didn't want....then he was like i really like you....and i was just like not happy or flattered that he liked me....i was like wtf?...so can someone answer my question
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Answer:
You probably thought guys were supposed to be your thing. Since you were raised up on that. You were raised up on Disney movies that showed you romance with 2 straight people. You most likely thought you were going to end up that way. Now you realize life isn't like the movies/tv. TV can get to people they not even realizing it. Just because you think someone is gorgeous doesn't mean you're attracted to them. It's human nature. Being materialistic. Putting a worth more tag on people who are good looking. I've done that too. Not even realizing it.
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