What's the fanciest/sweetest coffee you can find?

Is he creepy? Whats his deal?

• So two weeks ago I met this guy outside a bar. He was waiting for his cab ride back home and he started conversation with me. We found out we have mutual friends. He asked me what i did, offered me a smoke then before i knew it he was gone. That same night he found me on FB and kept asking me to have coffee with him, and for my number. I gave him my number and had coffee with him like 6 days ago. One thing that made me hesitant to have coffee with him was browsing through his facebook. I saw his commentary towards others and his responses to friends, and he's got a very mean and blunt sense of humor that verges on cruel almost. so anyways during coffee, he was very friendly very funny and charming! his blunt sense of humor came out a little bit, but i can handle it. then he asked me to hang out the next night and i did, we had some drinks. but ever since we had coffee he has been texting me NON stop throughout the day and if i don't respond in an hour i get another one. He asks me to hang out almost every night since coffee. Even when i was hanging out with my other friends he'll say things like you should be over here having pizza with me instead. He's very clingy, which i hate but for some reason i let it go with him. He also says things that are kind of weird road trips he said he wanted to take me on one of his roadtrips, but he only would do it if i "behaved" .....it sounded kind of creepy to me...like i'm some sort of animal.(he's 10 years older than me btw) but other than that he does compliment me a lot, and he's very thoughtful he bought me coughdrops and left them in my mail box with a nice note because i told him i was sick, and he can somehow tell when i am feeling down and immidetly knows what to say to make me feel better. i told him i was trying to quit smoking too and he instantly decided to do it with me, for support. I don't know this seems to be moving really fast, but i find i am getting swept away by his charm...but then again i am very suspicious because i hear him openly being a jerk to people when we are out. Like being absolutely brutal. I've hung out with him almost every day this week. SO i need everyones opinion what do you think of this situation? Is it creepy? Is he geniune? I don't know, but i feel so close to him already, but i know its false because we have been hanging out for a week. He kissed me the other night, i was drunk and he appologized and said hes so sorry he doesnt want to take advantage of me because i am drunk. WHICH IS NICE! WHAT IS HIS DEAL? Oh yeah and in the car if i say something he doesnt agree with he'll turn the radio up really loud to drown me out. He does it as a joke but it makes me feel weird. He also doesnt like his mother.

• Answer:

  That is just his personality.I joke around with friends,even they take it wrong sometimes. Either you like him as he is or do not bother.Like me,no one will ever change me. If so it would be the same as being in prison.