Just how far would you go to get revenge on someone you hated?

• I am now finding out just how far I have gone to get not just even,but to annhilate my enemy. And it is pretty far,too. For the last few months,I have been in a really bad funk,and it was because someone had taken advantage of my tender heart and told me stuff that she made up,to get me upset. I was already made upset by someone's death,and this person compounded it,by her outlandish BS,and i was advised not to listen to her,that she was just trying to get me upset. And it worked. All of my flrends,hubby and even people online,told me not to let this person get to me. I did'nt listen. And she got to me. badly. Even after I had repeatedly asked her not to reveal intimate details of someone I once cared for. She sullied his name, by revealing these details. Over and over and over,and I finally had had enough. I broke the friendship off. A month later,she asked to be friends again,i accepted,then it started over again, only this time, she had dragged MY best online friend into the fray. We both told her,that she needed help,and that she was delusional,and hallucinating. Signs of schitzophrenia. She went OFF on myself and my friend. This loony had drove a wedge between myself and my best online friend,once,I might add,because of her bs. All along,I was telling her,and some of her friends,that " Amy" needed professional help. No one believed me,and chose to "support" Amy. The sad thing was: Alot of HER frineds actually believed her. They believed her when she had told them that she was in love with and having a romatic relationship and sexual relationship with, get this: Heath Ledger's GHOST. Yes, you read that right. As a fan,this hurt me,and made me realllllly angry. I thought she was full ot it and told her so,and told her friends,too,trying to get her to realize,she needed help. She has had mental problems in the past,having been on heavy medication/stirring up drama,and seeing a shrink for her "problems". Well,a few days ago, someone,an anonymous person, had made up a channel,and myself, and a few others,including the girl in question,had it out,in this public channel,that this anonamous person set up,for that very reason. This is the deal: I said my piece,and I am glad it all has gotten cleared up,at least on MY end. Now I can grieve in peace. This is the thing: Alot of others hated her,too,and I sat back,watched,waited,lurking in the background,waiting for the right oppertunity to do something. It came,when I had seen she was having problems with people who hated her and flamed her channel. This is where I feel I over-stepped my boundaries of a human being: I intentionally befriended them,with the sole purpose of giving them the dirt they needed to use against her. Over the last month,between myself giving them the ammo they needed,and this channel,I have gotten the revenge I sought. Her You Tube channel is no more, nor is the channel that " Heath's ghost" had,for her. She did not share who " Jimmy" was,but with a few select friends. We all stood around,watching her,as she made a fool of herself,and people were laughing at her,while she carried on this " affair" with "Heath's ghost." I had tried to warn her. Time and time again. It was so bad,that she made the claim that I had had sex with Heath Ledger,in my van, in New York City, in April, OF THIS YEAR. 1: I've never been to NYC. 2. i do not own a van, my hubby does. 3. Heath Ledger !?!?! Come on! This tells me she is in dire need of professional help. She also claims suicide on a weekly basis. I am half-tempted to call her college and tell them what she is up to,but at the same time,I really do not care. That is my dilemma. I used these innocent people, to get even with a young woman I really,truly hate. So,i ask you: Just how far would YOU go,to destroy someone YOU hated? Would you stop at nothing,or stand back,and watch them destroy themselves, or help the process along, like I did,and allow that person to be publicly humiliated,and destroyed,like I did? The sad part is: I don't feel one bit bad about it. I feel good,actually, to know that i put an end to her bragging,her painful,descriptions and declarations of "Heath's" love and all of her imaginary bs. That is my dilemma: I don't feel the least bit crappy that I destroyed her reputation,making her look like a fool and a nut-case. WHat I do feel had about is recruiting innocent people,that hate her, to aid in my revenge--- Without their knowledge.

• Answer:

  Z Ultimate Revenge: a. Let 'em live in this horrid, nasty world, and to boot, wish 'em a long life! b. Ignore 'em. Then they don't even know what you're doing, thinking, etc. Suspense drives 'em crazy! Don't be ignorant or mean, but you surely have no need to communicate or meet with them on any sort of basis. Let any meetings or communications be either accidental or caused by them. Let your replies be short, sweet, and neither too precise nor too vague. c. If/when you do run into them, act nice, and polite. Do them a small favor they can't pay back. Leave their viccinity ASAP. Now they'e in your debt. It does not hurt them; it will make them better. It'll make you better too. Meanwhile, having done nothing wrong, you build up good karma. d. Get on with your own life, and make it livable. e. As for dead people you never knew personally - who never knew you personally: it is not a sign of good mental health to keep doting on them. Nor is it good for you! Sure, I loved Jimmy Doohan (Scotty): great actor, fellow Canadian, war hero... Sure I love Deforest Kelly (Bones): great actor, etc... Sure I loved John Wayne: great actor, etc... But I never met them. Nor did they know me. I only saw their on stage personas, not actually them. Do I miss them not making any new films or shows? Sure. But I have their old ones to watch! So, I don't dwell on it. I'm glad that we had them in this world to enjoy, and can enjoy their WORK long after they are gone. Movies & TV shows, etc, are WORK for these people. They had lives outside of that. And while I've been entertained, and embiggened by their work, I also have some existence outside their work. I enjoy the products of their work. I know they are only here for a while. They may have been LIKE members of my family, but they are/were NOT members of my family. I can survive without these actors/actresses, etc. And they don't like people doting on them in real life. It disturbs them. They'd be further hurt and embarassed by people doting on them after their death. I've no need to hurt them in recompense for the pleasures I got from their work. I carry on. It is what they would want. I suggest the same for you - and others. We have too many people living vicarious existences!