Why do some people condescend me & patronize me when i ask questions like this ?

you are so tied up with yourself and your own feelings you haven't really much to offer anyone else? whilst you look for sympathy and pity you are needy and therefore a burden try volunteer work, work with people less fortunate than yourself (believe me, there are many) even if it is only an hour or two a month maybe in giving yourself to someone more needy, you will start to appreciate what good there is in your life and in turn, having gained an understanding of someone else's needs other than your own this will make you more interesting, balanced and therefore more likely to attract friendships maybe finding something other than your computer to centre your whole life around would be a good start - whilst there is so little else to occupy your time and mind, you are bound to dwell on all the negatives - it's a bitter cycle! You are 30!!! Do SOMETHING! Good Luck

You basically have two choices: 1) Sort yourself out. Start at the bottom by getting any crappy job that pays, get some routine in your life, get some sense of self worth by holding down a job and feeling vaguely useful. Think about what you would like to achieve - consider night classes to get some kind of qualifications. Learn to get to know people. Accept that some people will reject you. It happens to us all at some stage. F'uck 'em. Life's too short to care about those who don't care about you. but you'll come into contact with people if you work, study, take up hobbies, etc. 2) Sit in your crappy flat feeling sorry for yourself and bleat about it until your mental condition deteriorates and you get sectioned again. Personally, I'd try getting off my ****, but then I've never been the sort to sit on it in the first place, so it's easy for me to say. That straight talking enough for you?

*Yawn*

1. Your gonna make me die of boredom 2. God your boring 3. Get laid 4. Get a life 5. sorry about the rejection but if you stopped bitching then maybe you would have friends. 6. I went threw a lot of physical and emotional issues I can't handle real rejection but on thee computer th rejection is nothing to me these ppl r just ppl I don't know them and I don't know who they really are!!! 7. I DON'T CARE WHAT PPL ONLINE THINK ABOUT ME (obviously) 8. since your needy find someone else that is. 9. if your gonna "befriend" ppl talk about them more then yourself and then let them find something to talk about really easy with women. and last but not least. 10. Sorry if i make you feel bad but you need to get some balls and grow the **** up!!!

You can quit whining. Get up off your butt and go do some thing to help someone who is worse off than you are. You will have something positive to talk about. Because frankly at the beginning of your question I was thinking poor guy. But by the end I was thinking what a whiner.

Come on keep your chin up. Get back on the horse, dont let the bStards get you down, there is nowt so queer as folk. Have we covered everything?

The problem here is that this is the wrong place for telling us all of your lifes problems. People don't want to hear about all this on Yahoo Answers, so go and seek help elsewhere.

stop whinging and get a life, theres a whole world to explore

For everyone who had mean answers, Cut it out! This guy obviously has problems, and you AREN'T helping! As for my answer, I feel bad for you. But listen, if people reach out to you and you're afraid of even speaking to them, how do you expect them to be friends with you? Everyone has a few bumps along the way. Sometimes you may fall and crash, and you'll even feel like you don't want to get back up. But look at the bright side! You said you were once homeless, right? Now you have an apartment! See, just keep going and things will get better for you. If you ever give up, you won't get anywhere! Just keep trying, okay? You'll eventually ba able to walk on your own two feet again! You don't have to rush into things... Just take small baby steps. Little by little, anyone can be a better person if they try their best. I stress the ANYONE part. Remember, if you don't love yourself, others think they shouldn't love you! I could talk to you! If that's okay, I mean. I'll tell you a secret.... I used to be a bad person. A really bad person. But everyone can change. It's just up to you, cause YOU'RE the only one who can make choices for yourself. God Bless, and I'll talk to you, no charge! Just make sure to cheer up, okay?