Why Do I Feel So Nervous and Uncomfortable Around Men?

Why do women feel they must please men? Why do they submit to his will when it makes them uncomfortable?

  • Additionally, why are men so insensitive, so cruel as to force themselves upon women and to invade in their lives? I have done something like this, quite benign. When young I peeked in a on a friend changing. The memory shames me but other men I know are proud of things like this and worse. So, what motivates men and women to do these things to each other or allow others to use them?

  • Answer:

    Not true in every relationship; that often is a two sided coin.

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Basically when this is the case it's because women are much more dedicated to a relationship than men are so they will do everything in their power to keep a relationship strong no matter what it takes and the sad truth is a good amount of men are only interested in sex and don't want to commit...it's sad but true

Rai-Rai

Women think they should please men more because they may be frightened if they dont give them any thing they will get mad or leave them and loose temper with them. Men think they own women alot just because they cant do anything back to them like proper.

tee-jay

where are these women you speak of, all the females in my family take no crap from anybody, and if they really want something, they get it themselves.

bluedoglondonlad

I wouldn't feel to ashamed of peeking in on someone while changing when you were a child, kids will be kids, kids are human, too. They type of woman that will allow a man to take complete control of her, even when it makes her feel uncomfortable, that type of woman has a low self esteem and doesn't feel as though she can do any better, or she feels as though she deserves it. All negative things come from a negative place, definitely not God.

♫►Phillipians 4:13◄♫

These are our primal urges. Way back in the day the guy would want to impregnate as many girls as possible and the girls would want to have someone hunt for food for them and keep them safe. That's why chicks want male approval so much, it's because millions of years ago they needed someone to take care of them, the mens old urges are to get girls pregnant which involves forcing themselves on women and being insensitive.

Derek

i would say for my age group it was programed into us. that the secret to a happy life was to keep your man happy in this day and age that isn't the case, men and women alike are equal in all areas of life you do get forceful people in both sexes today, these are selfish people who don't deserve a normal decent partner, people should only do what is good for them if it offends in any way then they shouldn't be forced to do it and if a person loves another it would hurt them to think they are responsible for making a person do some think they don't feel right with

nita

cuz thats our instincts from back in the caveman times

Cary C

Well in answer to the first part of you question: Women are conditioned from a young age to be nurturers by watching and learning from the behaviours of the females around them. We are be nature this way as women have traditionally been the ones to bring up the children and look after the home. It's only been since the 70's that women have begun to question this role In answer to the second part of the question: Men are encouraged to share their misdemeanours with others as a show of bravado. Whereas a woman would be made to feel ashamed of doing the same things. It's part of the double standards present in a society that stems from a time when women were very much second class citizens and their behaviour was regulated by men. Hope that helps.

KrazyAngelKat81

All have their personal preference and needs, the weaker and more stupid a woman, they more manipulative they are in dominating man. Whilst others prefer strong domineering men, this preference derived from our father and our relationship with him, and similarly men and mothers. I know it alarms some when they espy a good strong woman stand by a man, submitted, whom they feel is underserving of the adulation of one, whom they would adore. But that is the beauty of such selfless folk. If one is unhappy with the relationship, they compromise or part ways. Such Is Life. Be So Loved.

Jeeti Johal Wisdom™

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