How can I feel better about my body, when I can't lose my pregnancy weight.?
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I had my baby 10 months ago. Before pregnancy I was 115, I weighed 172 when she was born and now I still weigh 155 (5'3"). I got an infection in my c-section (from the hospital!!!) and was very sick for 4 months after she was born. I am better now but can't seem to lose the weight. I feel horrible about the way I look-nasty scar, stretch marks & excess weight. My spouse is very supportive but I have a hard time feeling attractive and feel very uncomfortable going out in public. I've always been thin and this is very hard for me to accept being in my opinion-FAT. Any advice/suggestions/thoughts. Thank you.
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Answer:
Give your self time to heal!!! I had 2 c-sections and your weight just doesn't drop off that fast, no matter what anyone says!!! Your spouce is great for supporting you though. Are you eating healthy? are you excersizing? Any movement helps you drop the weight. Give yourself time...I am sure you will be fine.
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Being "heavy" myself I think I understand how you feel. Other than to suggest exercise and diet to get to a " you" that you can feel better about the only thing I can suggest is: "You" are not your body image. "You" are much, much more than that, learn to love yourself as you are and then begin again to remold your "body image". Good Luck.
DrK
Honestly, its better you consult a specialist to find out what's best for you. I really want to help but I don't think I can give better answers than specialist do. Sorry. good luck Love is omnipresence, Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
McHammerHer
Food has become a drug for you, and you're abusing it. Get to an Overeaters Anonymous meeting as soon as possible. You ARE jeopardizing your marriage, your health, and your baby's future by being overweight, and you're overweight because YOU'RE EATING TOO MUCH!!!!!!
Johnny Fuckerfaster
eat a sensible diet, exercise regularly, and most of all keep your head up and smile. Try to stay active. and you've got the best support. your spouse
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