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Where would you like to live and why?

All the guys where i live dont like me as a gf, but ppl from out of town like me! Why is that?

  • It just seems that i have alot my guys that want to be my friends instead of my boy friend and it sucks! I dont like to date ppl that like live far away, but everything is far away from where i live. I just want to know why guys just think of my as a friend and not a girl friend.

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    Guys tend to take childhood female-friend as buddy rather than girlfriend material. At least until you give them a different impression. I'm not saying that you should not be yourself.. but maybe show them the other part of yourself.

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myouk1

Try asking them and they will probably be sincere in answering and all have different reasons. By the way are you yourself SURE you want to be everybody's girlfriend? How about choosing someone special just for you and maybe you won't have to ask at all because he may be the right boyfriend. How about these apples?

People from out of town, like me, Don't know you as much as the people that see you everyday. There might be things that they see in you that (people from out of town wont notice the first day)

Slim

depends on how much they kno u............

la_vaca3

If you think about it they are probably saving you from a headache, by not wanting to be ur boyfriend. They like you enough not to take you through so much hell!!!! I think you should be thankful!!!

alyaknatasha2006

Alright listen-you just have to be happy to HAVE that many friends and to be so popular, that's #1. #2: just pick the guy that you like best (to yourself) and spend more time with him then the other guys. become more "attached" to him. try flirting with him to show that you like him, and you got yourself a bf, if he likes you back. otherwise, choose one of your already-good-friends and try him (if you like him as a bf).

I think that the reason the boys don't like you around is they probly know you to much. to be in a relationship you need to learn about eachother not all ready know. good luck,

boylover_stoner

you should notice that a lot of the time it seems people are more attractive from a different area or town than where you live. that is because you become sterile to the beuaty that surrounds you. there is probably a very unique and beautiful landmark near you but you have become so accustomed to being near it it is just like anything else around you now. same goes with people. they are around you and so you have lost your attractiveness. you'll have to be a little more forthcoming to get what you want. hey, send me a pic and i may be motivated to move to where you live.

harleymsu

Maybe you are more free with the people out of town. Maybe you let go of yourself a little and are more confident and thats what they like?

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