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I dont get it. Whats wrong with me? I want a gf, but I just dont seem to know how to finish what i started.?

• This has happened to me so many times. I am really upset with myself. (I've never had a gf before, I've never experienced love of that sort, and I don't know what it feels like to kiss a girl.) I guess you can say I've missed out on a lot in life. Well let me tell you a little more first. I'm 16 and school just finished up. Over the past month and a half, I got to know this real nice girl in several of my classes. We talked quite a bit and got to know each other a little better. She even signed my yearbook and said she was happy we became friends. I have a little crush on her, and I thought I was doing well on breaking the ice (talking to her, telling her about myself, getting to know her, etc...). I was getting real close to the point where I wanted to get her number and maybe ask her out on a date. However, I didn't seem to have the guts to do either. Also, I don't know if it was just me, but I almost felt that I was receiving mixed signals towards the final days of school, and l just wasn't sure. I even saw her drive off with one of her guy friends after school, who I now suspect she that likes. I really like her and I thought she might have liked my for a while at least, but the mixed signals near the end were kind of a slap in the face to me. I guess you can say I've had my heart crushed AGAIN. You don't know what it feels like to get lead on this many times; it's an awful feeling when you figure out they probably aren't interested. I really don't know what the hell is wrong with me. I like to think that I'm a nice guy. A lot of people say I'm quiet, although once you get to know me, I'm a lot more open. I just don't know what it is that steers girls away from me. I try to dress nice for school, shower every day, try to smell good, and try to look my best, so hopefully I'm not ugly (but then again, I really don't want a girl to like me just for the looks, because that will only lead to a hollow relationship). I've tried and ALWAYS failed to get a gf. I don't have a problem getting to talk to them, but I just don't seem to know how the hell to finish what I started, and they end up getting away; all that hard work I did getting to know them, going down the drain. I'm really upset with myself, and I feel like a complete idiot. When I want to take the next big step in getting to know girls, something always stalls me. I always start thinking that I'm either: annoying, creepy, or a loser to beautiful girl, and that gets to me EVERY SINGLE TIME. I also get the fear that if I ever asked her out, and she said no, then things would be awkward between us, and I don't want that at all, because many of these girls I like (not all of them) are people that I like to think of as friends. I'm almost at the point where I want to give up, but I would really like to experience a relationship as a teenager in high school. I feel like there's something missing in my life. I have a great family, a strong relationship with Jesus Christ my lord and savior, and generally fun in life (although I'm not the one you often see going to social gatherings, especially with school related people). Can I get some good advice from you guys? I fell really disturbed deep down inside right now. I just want a good charactered girl that i can share my deep caring side with; something I've never shared with a girl before. And it's killing me that I've never got to share that emotion before.

• Answer:

  you have to be confident. even if you are quiet, be confident in who you are. i'm quiet, but i still love myself. it's just a way of being and interacting with the world. a girl doesn't want a guy whose timid and scared. if you were getting close just talking, things could've progressed further had you simply asked, do you want to go to the movies? telling someone you like them can be uncomfortable, but asking her to the movies is a simple gesture that shows your interest. always think of this too, what's the worst that could happen? if she treats you differently because of that, is she really someone you want in your life? you live once, so go after things that you once. if anything, you won't have to fet that disturbed deep down feeling and always have the what if thought lingering in your mind.