How can I stop my HUSBAND from getting on all these porn sights, lesbian sights, and all these dating sights?

Start putting out more often, or finding a girlfriend for both of you to share.

Its impossible. Divorce him.

i think there is a way it's called curb u put their stuff on it and while he is picking up his things u flip him the bird

You need to ask him why he feels the need to hide this from you? Do you two have open communication? Is he a shy person? Why does he feel that he can't reveal this to you? Do you give him a hard time about porn? The bigger question is why is he keeping a SECRET? Because porn is so not a big thing, unless he's hiding something else or you make him feel as if he needs to hide it.

The greatest lie that is perpetuated on women is that porn is not a big thing! The more men and now some women repeat this mantra, the more they perpetrate their harmful views and behaviors - unless we speak out! They have been duped and want to dupe others. There comes a time in every woman's life when she is stung by the hideous evil of pornography. That first time it happens - the emotions you feel at that time - pain, anguish, anger, despair, and betrayal -is the raw visceral truth of the colossal destructive powers of pornography. Women who say that it's no big deal have, over time, been hardened by the philosophies of men into accepting their wicked agendas. Plain and simple. These women "buy into" the exploitation of women because they want men to like them and think they're "cool" and open-minded. Pornography destroys. It destroys those who participate in it, those who watch it, buy it, promote it, and it destroys the INNOCENT - who, make no mistake about it, are profoundly affected by it. Yes, you are hurt, deeply, and anyone who would say that your feelings are unreasonable are they themselves part of the grand lie. If you haven't made your feelings absolutely clear to him, do so now. If he dismisses your feelings or says he will stop and doesn't, then you have a new problem on your hands. The fact that he locks the bedroom door to keep you out while he's ingesting pornography and when you need to get in the bedroom to sleep, he turns the computer away so you can't see what he's doing is indicative that HE KNOWS WHAT HE IS DOING IS WRONG and he doesn't want anything to impede his behavior, including you. In other words, his emotional adultery with computer images takes precedence over his relationship with you. Visiting dating sites is a whole other level of betrayal. That's the insidious power of porn. It may start out as looking at one picture, but it never stops just there. It is a snare that, once someone is caught, draws that person deeper and deeper into it's destructive world. Your husband's visiting dating sites is further proof of porn progression! I would suggest individual counselling for you and your husband. Then, couples counselling would be beneficial. You would be wise to seek help from a religiously affiliated counselling service who understand the diabolical nature of pornography and the power it has to ruin individuals and families. At the very least, ask your husband how he would feel if your heart and mind were in the same place as his is now, and you spent your free time lusting after naked men, men kissing men, visiting dating sites and trying to hide it from him! You are a daughter of God and have a right to expect loyalty in thought and deed from your husband. As His mighty daughter, you are empowered to speak up and to be treated as you deserve to be. The greatest pornographic mistake WE can make is to let the mantra that "porn is no big deal" go unquestioned and unchallenged. Let your feelings be known without shame or fear. Just a last note of advice, in the event that your husband refuses to make the changes that will reinstate trust and honesty in your marriage, don't let his destructive ways destroy you, too. Take care of yourself with a good support network and work on creating opportunites for yourself should you need to leave him. Good luck and best wishes to you.

You need to tell him how you are feeling. This addiction can cause a lot of trouble to your marriage, and may even cost a lot of money! If he doesn't listen, try getting him some help. You may have to do something silly to prove a point to him, such as bringing up a naked male. If nothing else works, contact an attorney, and think about separation. It may take something serious for him to realize he won't have you forever if he doesn't change. Good luck to you, I hope all is well. Please feel free to email me anytime, [email protected]!

what a nice answers? helpless.... what u can u is this open a new window ( internet explorer) go to tools go to internet options go to security and click on restricted sites and set the levels that he cant see those sites hope this help to you good luck.