How to change what program to my utorrent instead of vuze?

I caught my dad downloading a porn movie.?

• Ok,so. Yesterday,i opened Vuze(utorrent like) and he was downloading some movies. We often download movies(not porn:D) and we watch them with my mother. I am 14,my dad is 51,and my mom 50(i have an older sister,she is 20) and i looked them(name and Youtube),but it was a movie called Wet Nurse and had some XxX and Pr0nmovies tag).Every movie had a trailer but wet nurse hasnt. So: i looked the torrent site and it was a porn movie. To be sure,i opened the file,and yes,it was a porn movie. The last week i found some other pornmovies in the computer but i thought they were viruses... He was downloading the movie yesterday,and I cancelled the download and went to the living room and said him"Why you have the pc off since u dont download anything?) I deleted the other movies as well,just to make him that it was an error or sth with the program.. I am a male,14 years old.. what to do? im pretty sad now.. i watched some other questions. they say about hormones and that every man likes porn.Ok,i respect that but i do not like that he downloads a porn movie letting everyone knows. My mum doesnt know anything.. what to do??? my parents are not sexually active as they are 50 years old.. At least,im pretty happy that he doesnt visit porn websites,since i watch history and im pretty experienced with computers. I would appreciate if my dad watched some soft porn movies WHEN ME AND MY MOM arent here and he deleted them. idk what to do

• Answer:

  I get you, and I know how you feel. To be blunt I felt exactly the same way you did with that whole situation. Unlike you I was more reckless about it i.e. cracking disks and burning mags, but there really isn't too much you can do. I know that probably isn't what you want to hear, but he's a grown man, and he has lived his life, and I assume he pays his bills. Biologically speaking I know that once women reach the age of forty they can no longer have children but can still have hormonal drives, however, men never stop producing sperm, which means that your fathers hormones are still very active. Much more than your mother. My best advice from one guy to another is play it smart, but respect your old mans personal space. That would be the best and most mature thing to do here. What you really need here is someone you can talk to about this, someone who wont judge you, and listen to how you feel about this, and seeing as how you and I are both faceless to one another I don't know enough about you to tell you how best to deal with this. If you want to talk about it though, I am willing to lend some time to help you get over the shock of that, cause I was shocked too. Trust me though when I say that as you get older, you find it's no big deal, and brush off those kinds of things like it's nothing. It can be pretty harmless, unless exposed to at such a young age, but I think this happens to every adolescent at least once in their young life. I hope you feel better and that anything I said actually helps to console you.